WHAT WOMEN WANT IN A MAN.....By Andy Kwas. BB PIN 2326600E.

A lot of guys are pretty confused about what women want in a man. Women are naturally drawn to some men, and likewise, women can’t help but drift away from some other men. Let me show you 10 traits every woman long for in men. If you want to know what women want in a man, use this checklist and be the man every woman would love to have as her own.

1 A MAN WHO CAN RESPECT HER (7 ways to respect a woman)
1. Respect your self
2. Do what you said you would do
3. Don’t play with her emotions
4.  Don’t lie to her
5. Understand her needs and seek to meet them
6. Let the words you speak about her carry an air of honor, beauty, acceptance and value
7. Let her come first in your daily activities. Learn to respect the woman in your life, and she’ll love you and respect you a lot more too.

2 A MAN WHO CAN TRULY LOVE HER (8 ways to love a woman)
1. Be patient with her
2. Be kind to her
3. Respect her needs
4. Be ready to forgive and forget
5. Put her needs ahead of yours
6. Endure with her
7. Compromise for her sake
8. Be proud of her
9. Give to her. Don't hold back.

3 A MAN WHO CAN PROTECT HER (5 Ways to Protect Her)
1. Don’t let anyone take advantage of her
2. Speak for her when she lacks the ability to speak for herself
3. Be a man she can rely on when she's in an edgy situation.
4. Let her feel your commitment on a daily basis no matter what the circumstance.
5. Give her the confidence that you can handle almost any troubling situation you get into?

4 A MAN THAT SHE CAN LOOK UP TO (10 Ways To make her Look up To You)
1. Inspired her
2. Motivate her
3. Encourage her
4. Fulfill her dreams and ambition
5. Lead her
6. Pastor her. Pray for her
7. Mentor her
8. Guide her
9. Love her
10. Idolize her

5 A MAN WHO IS NOT LAZY: (10 Fold signs You Are Lazy)
1) Lazy people don’t acknowledge that they’re lazy
2)They love their beds- LOL this is not debatable ‘cause we all set alarms and end up waking up late.
3) They find excuses for doing nothing.
4) They wait for the perfect condition before they get busy.
5) They aren’t self starters,  they wait for other people to motivate them.
6) They don’t finish what they start.
7) They love explaining why it wasn’t done.
8) They aren’t organized; they have chaotic lives.
9) They are easily influenced by the earthly desires that end up ruining their lives.
10) They never ever fulfil their dreams.

6 A MAN SHE CAN TRUST (9 Ways To Build Trust With Her)
1. Don’t cheat on her
2. Be where you said you would be
3. Be transparent
4. Don't Lie to her
5. Let your word be your bond
6. Be dependable
7. Take your relationship with her serious
8. Don’t let her down (though a rare occasion may be excusable)
9. Be there for her and help her in her time of need.

7 A CHILVALROUS MAN (9 Ways To be A Chivalrous Man)
1. Take her out at least once a week
2. Open the car door for her
3. Open the door for her if both of you are about passing through one
4. Pull out a seat for her to sit on when both of you wants to dine together
5. Be gentle with her
6. Handle her delicately
7. Tell her I Love you at least 3 times a day
8. When you order for food in a restaurant, be the one to carry what's been bought and serve her. I do all this often.
9. Infact, be romantic
Chivalry is old school, but it’s still something all women love and adore in a man. All men know what it takes to be a chivalrous man, but surprisingly, most men believe that being chivalrous is actually a sign of being meek and trying too hard to please a man. But contrary to what most men think, being chivalrous is not a sign of weakness. By being chivalrous, it shows that you respect the woman.

8 A MAN WHO CAN GROOM HIMSELF (10 Way To Look Groomed)
1. Be neat. Don't smell
2. Shave well
3. Keep your nails well kept
4. Avoid body odour
5. Smell nice
6. Brush your mouth at least twice a day
7. Keep your hair nicely trimmed.
8. Be attractive
9. Hit the gym often, go for an evening jog, or whatever works for you to look physically fit.
10. Dress well and use a few manly cosmetics and rich colognes and perfumes. Look like a celebrity on the streets and women will trail you like you’re a real celebrity!

9 A MAN WHO IS AMBITIOUS (8 Ways To Be Ambitious)
1. Have something to live and die for
2. Have great plans
3. Dream big
4. Have a vision
5. Make up your mind to be an achiever
6. Think Big
7. A man who can envision his successful future, or a man who can tell magical stories while lazing on the hammock and watching the stars with his lover.
8. Women love a man with an active imagination. Imagination is such a great companion at the end of a bad day, or while spending a romantic moment together.

10. BE ROMANTIC (49 Ways To Be Romantic)
1. Write "I love you" in the steam on the bathroom mirror after he takes a shower.
2. Offer a back massage with some good smelling lotion.
3. Write a poem. Then use Google Translator to translate a poem into either French or Italian. Then handwrite it out with the translation on the back side. Or better yet, greet your partner at night and read it to them with passion and then hand them the translation.
4. While in public, declare "I love you, Matilda!" (not Matilda, but your partner's name.)
5. Make a CD with a few songs that are meaningful to your relationship.
6. Invite him to take a bath complete with bubbles, champagne, candles, and maybe a little Barry White. (the music, not actually Barry White in your tub.)
7. Surprise her at work and take her out to lunch, maybe take-out food in the park or maybe to a little diner, for a midday romantic interlude.
8. Put together a little gift on his pillow: chocolate and a note that says "Your love is like chocolate: sweet and delicious."
9. If your partner has a work presentation at an off site location, have flowers and a note of support delivered there.
10. Dedicate a song to him on the radio and send him an email telling him when to listen.
11. Cook a special love meal of your partner's favorite foods. Play his favorite music and turn the lights low for a romantic dinner.
12. Give your partner a pedicure and foot rub.
13. Send a text message or email that says "I love you!"
14. Mail a card and inside write down the top 10 things you love about your partner.
15. Give her a picture of you that says "I love you."
16. Leave a love note in her car telling her to have a great day.
17. When your partner least expects it, give her a great big kiss, even if it's in public!
18. Go see a romantic movie, sit in the back row, hold hands, and cuddle.
19. King for a Day/ Queen for a Day. Declare that you will dedicate a particular day just to your partner to do whatever they want. Maybe start with breakfast in bed
20. Buy a tree and invite your partner to plant it with you explaining that this tree represents the love between you both that will grow over the years.
21. In the midst of talking about how your days went, the chores that need to be done, etc. interrupt and say "I have something important to tell you. I love you and here's why." Then list 5 things (or more) that you really appreciate about your partner. Finish with a kiss and say, "Ok, so you were talking about the water heater."
22. Write an old fashioned love letter and mail it. Be romantic and lavish. Have some fun with it.
23. Before going to a party together come up with some secret code words you can use during conversation. You can be telling each other "I can't wait to get you alone tonight!" without anyone knowing!
24. Find a hotel that has a jacuzzi and book it for a one night getaway somewhere close but fun.
25. Place an ad in the classifieds declaring your love. Then take the newspaper, wrap it in a bow, and put a little note on it saying what page to look on.
26. Blindfold surprise. Blindfold your partner and drive them to the place where you had your first date, and have that date all over again!
27. Write a love poem for her.
28. Make an early valentine. Cut out some paper in the shape of a heart. Write something sweet on it in red and put it in her purse or his briefcase.
29. If your partner is going on a business trip secretly hide a love note inside their luggage.
30. Offer to help them with some dreaded chore they must complete and make it into a fun time maybe with some music. (cleaning out the basement, raking the leaves, shoveling after a big snow storm, giving the dog a bath, washing the car, etc.)
31. Do something romantic and spontaneous, like picking a flower and giving it to her right on the spot.
32. Invent a meal and name it after him or her.
33. Buy some body paint and write your love message on your body.
34. Record yourself reading a romantic love poem for your honey. Then give your partner a CD and tell them to play it in the car on their way to work.
35. Make a small postcard sized love collage. Then cover it with clear packing tape. Write a love message on the other side and mail it!
36. Keep a box with mementos of fun things you've done together. Later when the box is filled, arrange them on a board and have it framed.
37. Buy some underwear with special messages on it. Or buy your own and paint a special picture or message with fabric paints.
38. Make a donation to charity in the name of your love for your partner. Give your sweetheart a card that tells how grateful you are to share your life with her.
39.Keep a box with special cards, letters, photographs, and other mementos. On your anniversary or on Valentine's day take a little time to share fond memories together as you review the contents.
40. Create a mindmap of all the things you love about your partner and make it into a card.
41. Take a walk on the beach together. Run up ahead and write a message in the sand, and then call your partner to see what you "found."
42. Say "I love you" often, slowly, and with feeling.
43. Play hooky together. You work hard. Now today take a day to work easy at just sharing some fun time together. Call it an "I love you day."
44. Send an e-card to your sweetie to brighten his day.
45. Make little "I love you" posters with either crayons, markers, collage, paint, whatever. Post them in surprising places: the bathroom, the closet, the car, under her pillow, on her pillow.
46. Create a small website or blog dedicated to your partner. Write a short love message each day for a month...or forever.
47. Complete that chore or favor that your partner has wanted you to do for a long time.
48. Be super kind for a whole day. Act like you would with a new love, a child, or a frail person. Show lots of kindness, generosity, and love no matter what for a whole day.
49. Take an interest in your partner's interests. For a woman it might be watching a football game with your guy. And for men it might be going to see a chick-flick. Do it with a spirit of enthusiasm and love. Have fun.

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