INTRODUCTION: Statistics Have it that the Divorce Rate Of Lovers is about 89 percent while that of friends is 15 percent. Let me say it again, "Love is Not Enough To Sustain A Marriage Relationship". You need more than Love and One of the ingredient you need apart from Love is Cultivating Genuine Friendship with your Partner. Marry your Friend. Don't marry your Lover. A friend may be a Lover but a lover is not always a friend. I now present to you the 13 difference between a Lover and a friend.
1. Friends talk about Everything. Romantic Partners talk mainly about sex
2. Friends can connect in the midst of other friends. Lovers must be alone to connect
3. Friends laugh and play about almost everything. Lovers only laugh and play when its connected with sex
4. Friends relate unconditionally. Lovers relate conditionally. For Lovers, No gain, no relationship.
5. When friends are together, their companion is never boring cos they never run out of what to say. If you always run out of what to say when you are with your wife or partner, you are lovers.
6. Friends connect at all levels (spirit, soul and body). Lovers don't. They only connect sexually (body).
7. Friends are never tired of being with each other. Lovers get tired once they have sorted out what they came together to achieve...Sex!
8. For couples who are friends, they have bonds with themselves apart from the kids and that's principally communication. For Lovers, what binds them is either sex pleasure moments or the responsibility of bringing up the kids. Apart from these 2, they bore themselves.
9. Friends don't keep secrets. Lovers keep secret. If you are very secretive and not being real with your partner, you married a Lover
10. Friends are themselves when they are together. If you find yourself not being true to your real self, always hiding and covering up your tracks, you are with a Lover.
11. When friends are together, they are themselves. No pretence, no walking on egg shells. If you have to always watch what you say and thread carefully in a relationship so you don't offend your partner, you are married or dating a Lover.
12. If you feel like you and your partners are strangers and do not really know yourselves, you are with a Lover. Friends are just opposite. They don't just know themselves. They are fond of each other.
13. If you find it as a struggle in Opening up to your partner on ALL Issues that concern you both, You are Lovers. How come there is someone else apart from your partner you can tell EVERYTHING? Hmmm! Thanks for Reading and let us know if you have more points on this issue.
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