INTRODUCTION: Let me start with a question for you. Does he like you? In order to really fall in love, you actually have to like each other first. If you’re reading this and you’re just asking yourself, “How do I know if he’s into me? Well, I guess I will have to write another article for you all to read next time on that subject! So let’s assume that he likes you and you like him. You may know how to attract a guy’s attention, but do you know how to make him want to go out with you? Find out how to make a man fall in love with you using these simple steps.
1. Be confident: You have to believe in yourself. Many women remain single because of their low self-esteem. I once met a girl that wasn't that pretty, but she claimed that she could have any man she wanted. She told me, “It doesn't matter how you look, it matters what you think of yourself.” Later that night I met her boyfriend. They were on a long-term relationship and they seemed to be happy together. This woman was acting like she was wearing an invisible crown; and it was working.
2. Do not overreact: When you like someone and you want to make him like you too, it's very easy to make a fool of yourself. Don't be too loud or too invisible; don't laugh for no reason, don't say anything that pops into your head. That usually happens when you are too nervous about what he'll think of you – there is no reason to be so stressed. Just relax, take a big breath and act like he is one of your friends.
3. Be yourself: The first rule to make him fall in love with you is to be yourself. If he will love you for something, let that be your special character and your real self. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. Don't do anything that isn't you. After all, you do have enough self respect to be loved for what you really are, don't you?
4. Be friendly – Smile and compliment him. The first step to make a guy like you is to get close to him. Who can resist the company of a friendly and happy face?
5. Find out about him: To get into his heart, you have to get into his mind first. Find out what he's made of. Ask people that know him to discover what he likes and dislikes but be discreet about it. Do you have something in common? Maybe you listen to the same music, or you both like to play chess. Take advantage of the information you've got. Challenge him in to a game of chess or start a conversation about the bands you both enjoy.
6. Get to know his friends: To win his heart, try to win his friends first. For men, friendship is very important. Take it for granted that he trusts his friends' opinions, and he faithfully follows their advice. If there is someone that can influence him, it will be his friends. So, the sooner you get to know them and the more they like you, the more possible it is to be with him!
7. Maintain your independence: Don’t be too needy and act like he is your God. Must you always ask him for everything? Chapter what verse what? Men don't like women who line up before them like streams of beggars waiting to be helped. Find a way to be creative enough to be independent. This is why men generally likes working class ladies. Don't tell them I told you please....Lolzzz.
8. Make him feel important. While no man wants you to appear needy or desperate, no man wants to feel that he doesn't matter at all. When you are with him, turn off your cell phone. Be on time for dates. Return his calls within a reasonable amount of time. Following a few simple courtesies will allow you to express his importance in your life.
9. Be intriguing. He would not have asked you out in the first place if he didn't find you fascinating. Yet a woman’s instinct is often to share too much too soon. It 's normal to want to bring a new love into your confidence. However, if the relationship becomes long term, you will have the rest of your life to deal with the not-so-sexy realities of life. In the beginning, maintain a certain aura of mystery by not telling him every little thing about you and your daily life. Don't lie, of course, but don't give in to the urge to bare your soul about anything and everything.
10. Dress attractively. Dressing attractively doesn't mean dress provocatively. Men are visual, and women know this better than anything else. When you’re out with the man you like, look good.
11. Be pleasant. Stop frowning your face and stop saying, "I can't smile". Don’t you know that men can’t resist a cute smile? And if you can be pleasant and warm when you’re with him, he’ll love you for it.
12. Don’t be rude: Men are completely put off by rude or arrogant women. If you can be rude to your date or even a waiter, he wouldn’t be able to help but wonder if it’s only the tip of the rude iceberg. Men definitely love a woman who can take a stand, but if it’s in the form of arrogance, he’d stay a mile away from falling in love.
13. Connect with him intellectually: On your dates together, try and connect with him intellectually now and then. Speak to him about his career goals, his ambitions and aspirations, and let him see that he can actually have a meaningful life-altering conversation with you.
14. Work your eye contact: It’s been seen that romantic eye contact can actually make two people fall in love with each other in no time. The next time you’re having a conversation with him, stare deeply into his eyes as he talks to you. You can smile or flirt, but every time your eyes meet, let the eye contact linger even if both of you aren’t exchanging words. It makes the guy feel warm and fuzzy, and would definitely stir his heart.
15. Don’t be easily available: This is tricky, but it’s definitely a great way to make a man fall in love with you. Make him miss you and one way to do this is being scarce from time to time. Give him reasons why he can't always have you when he want. Water is far more important diamond but how come diamond is far more expensive than water? The answer is availability. The ready availability of water though more important have reduced its price and it will also reduce yours till you learn how not to be too available even when your body cries to be with him.
16. Don’t let him know you’ve fallen for him: Don't be too excited showing your 32 when you are with a guy you like. No matter how much you like a guy. Never let him know that you’ve fallen head over heels for him. Always make him wonder about how serious you are, and let him be the first one to make the move into a serious relationship.
17. Play hard to get, but not too hard! A guy likes a bit of a challenge. There’s something about overcoming an obstacle that makes the victory so much sweeter. If you’re easy to get, a guy could lose interest. Same if you are too hard to get. Find a balance where you can show him hat you’re interested, but make him work a little bit for it.The longer the chase, the more he would want you.
18. Be Friends. There is a special connection between good friends. A level of comfort, honesty, openness, acceptance, understanding and so on. This is always a good foundation for a good, long-lasting relationship. This doesn’t mean that you have to be friends before dating, you can definitely grow that friendship while you are dating. Friendship is something that can often come naturally, but you do need to work on it and give it an environment where it can grow.
19. Be love-able. If you want him to love you, be love-able. Don’t be mean, dramatic and self-centered, be love-able. Love him and show him love. Love is a verb, not a feeling. Love is something you do. Show him you love him by doing the little things. If you’re not sure what to do, check out the 5 Love Languages. You might find it helpful to learn how to express love in different ways.
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