INTRODUCTION: Wooing a girl is an art. Too many guys rush right in, express their undying infatuation to a girl they like and expect everything to work out just fine. It doesn’t work that way. It’s all about warming her up, letting her know your intentions, and waiting for her to reciprocate your intentions. Just follow these 18 steps, and you’ll definitely be well on your way to wooing a girl the right way and getting her attention.
1. Be confident. Women love confidence. A confident man tells her that he is in charge of his world and capable of taking care of her.
2. Listen To Her. Women appreciate a good listener. Stare into her eyes and listen, really listen, to the things she says. Remember women love to talk and if you can lend her that listening ears, she will fall for you.
3. Be attentive. Women like attention from their man. They do not like being around someone who demands it. Be attentive to her needs and moods. That will also tell her you are sensitive towards her. Remember, women build their world around their relationship while men build their world around their work.
4. Show your soft spot. Men who show their vulnerable side are attractive to women. But do not be needy. It is important to be in control; otherwise, you may scare her off.
5. Romance her. Romance is not sex and sex is not romance. Romance is simply masculinity putting on feminity. It's that simple. Women love romance and anything romantic. Flowers, red wine, chocolates, candle-lit dinners, and gifts will do the trick. Call her up just to tell her you’re thinking about her and can’t wait to see her again. Be attentive and make her feel cherished and truly special.
6. Express yourself. Expressions of your love are what most women crave. Love notes, love poems, and love quotes go a long way. Don't sit down there looking like a moron not knowing what to say. Open your mouth and express yourself genuinely. Remember women fall in love through their ears while men fall in love through their eyes.
7. Compliment her. A compliment has more effect when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue. A compliment is valued when there is a surprise element to it. Telling her how witty you find her, how her intelligence turns you on, appreciating how thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle nature, all these are deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the recipient feel ten feet tall.
8. Adapt your style. Find out what she likes in men’s fashion and if it suits your style, incorporate some of these things. For instance, you could change the way you wear casuals or a specific cologne to suit her. This your old fashion thing is not working sir! Adapt your style.
9. Leave Memory Of you: Do something that reminds her of you when you are gone. Always look for ways to constantly remind her of you but don't do it in a sexual way. That's weak and sinful. You can start by buying her something inexpensive that reminds her of you when she is away from you.
10. Open up to her. Here’s something you need to know about the art of communication. If you want to connect emotionally with anyone in the whole world, all you need to do is confess about an incident from your own life. When you confess about something, it reveals your vulnerable side, and it makes the other person open up to you without even realizing it. The more you open up to a girl and talk to her about your problems, the more she’ll open up to you and get emotionally attached to you.
11. Display maturity: No woman loves a man-child. Grow up and stop acting like a child. Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself and stop acting like a child she has to mummy all over again.
12. Talk to her about herself: Women love it when a guy takes interest in their likes, dislikes, interests, family, childhood and so many other areas. Talking to her about herself is the best way to make her fall in love. Don't go to a woman and saturate your chat with her by telling her how great and wonderful you are. Take the focus from you and fix it on her. She will love you for it.
13. Be Faithful: Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let her know that you have eyes only for her and the rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense your commitment to her and your relationship. So many people profess deep feelings and then cheat on their partners. Women need to feel secure and once that is established, it takes the relationship to a higher level.
14. Time spent with her is precious: Make it clear that you really treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of your busy schedule. For instance, if she suddenly tells you she’d like to meet you because she’s finishing work early and you had something else lined up, cancel it for her. If she begs you to come see a movie and you had plans with your buddies, do it for her and let her know subtly that you did. She will surely reward you!
15. Learn what turns her on: Every one has what turns them on. For a woman, there are 5 basic things that turn them on and guys too have 5. Not being able to decode what turns a woman on is like having a car and not knowing what your car needs to be on the road. (Read: The 5 Love Language and How to apply them).
16. Give her space: Don’t be possessive and make her account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her have her own life too. Don’t alienate her from her friends and don’t police her around. Let her be her own person and please trust her.
17. Be Thoughtful: You remember little things she told you, and remind her of it at opportune moments. It may be that she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup when she’s got a cold, and you land up with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told you how she adores a particular entrée at a popular restaurant and the next time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her feel like you genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on it and make her happy.
18. Be yourself: The last point on how to make her fall in love with you is to be yourself. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. Don't do anything that isn't you. It won't be long before she finds out that you are fake. Thanks for reading and don't forget to also read "How to make a man fall in love with you effortlessly".
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