TOP 10 REASONS FOR DIVORCE THAT NEW COUPLES OVERLOOK Part 1...By Andy Kwas.

INTRODUCTION: Are you in a marriage that’s less than three years old? Well, then you’re probably going to experience any of these little signs that may not seem like such a big deal to begin with.

#1 YOU FEEL CONSTRAINED: Ever felt like the marriage is holding you back from achieving your true potential or a career option? If you feel like you’re too good to be tied down, big chances are, you’ll look for every opportunity to break out of the cage when no one’s looking.

#2 LACK OF COMMUNICATION: Talking is not communication. Communication is about understanding each other clearly and learning more about each other. Most couples talk, but don’t communicate. A relationship without good communication is a disaster waiting to happen.

#3 EXPECTATIONS FROM EACH OTHER: When two lovers get married, they have expectations from each other. But if the expectations are not mutual, it will end up distancing two people who haven’t communicated their expectations to each other.

#4 UNMET NEEDS: Cars need some basic requirments to function like water, fuel and oil. The car will move as long as its needs are met. You and I are also designed like this. Women have 5 Basic needs just like men. If your wife or hubby is malfunctioning, don't look far. Their Basic needs are not being met and if it continues, the marriage will break down. It called divorce.

#5 STAND BY YOUR SPOUSE: Why would you listen more to your bro and sis than your spouse? Don't you know that marriage makes 2 people one? When will you start listening to her instead of your parents or siblings? Never take a stand with your family against your spouse. You will ruine your marriage.

#6 YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO GOOD: Have you ever felt like you deserve someone better than your spouse? This feelings may seem like nothing now, but over time if ungaurded will make do what will shock you to your bone marrow.

#7 DIFFERENCE IN CULTURAL BACKGROUNDS: Manage your differences (families, culture, religious beliefs) well. If you don't, all it will take is a few months of suppressed ideas and opposing thoughts to wreak havoc in a marriage.

#8 TRUST. Do you really trust your spouse? Do you find their behavior suspicious, especially when they’re talking to a friend over the phone? Trust is an important pillar in marriage. If you can’t trust your spouse, you definitely can’t survive the marriage.

#9 JEALOUSY and INSECURITY. Insecurity is a little worm that crawls into your heart and grows over time. It may be your spouse’s fault, or they may have nothing to do with it. Jealousy can be cute at first, but not if it leads to big fights or confusions.

#10 INCOMPATIBLE PERSONALITY: At times, both of you may be two perfect individuals who are just completely imperfect for each other. Both of you may share nothing in common and over time, you may find that both of you should have been better off unmarried than married. Now drop your comments below. Thanks

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