If life and your relationships has been rough and a bit difficult, then one of these childhood bad habit you acquired may still be affecting you right now. Go through each of these habits and find out the one that is still affecting you till date. Let's talk.
BAD Habit #1: ABANDONEMENT: These are People who cling to others because they're afraid of being left and don't feel important relationships will last. They're usually attracted to partners who cannot be there in a committed way. Their relationship suffer because they will do anything just to be in a relationship no matter what.
BAD HABIT #2: SUBJUGATION: In relationships, these people let the other person have the upper hand and worry a lot about pleasing other people so they won't be rejected. Their relationship suffer because nobody likes a doormat. Such people are end up being used and dumped
BAD HABIT #3: UNRELENTING STANDARD: These people feel they must be the best in what they do and feel there is constant pressure to achieve and get things done. Their relationships suffer because they push themselves so hard.
BAD HABIT #4:EMOTIONAL DEPRIVATION: Most of the time, these people haven't had someone to nurture them, to care deeply about everything that happens to them or someone who was tuned in to their true feelings and needs. Their relationship suffering because the moment they find someone who shows them a bit of Love and care, they end getting so attach and needy. Who likes such a person?
BAD HABIT #5:ENTITLEMENT: These are people hate to be constrained or kept from doing what they want or feel that they shouldn't have to follow the normal rules and conventions other people do. Their relationship suffer because they become very stubborn and can't submit to anyone when they get into a relationship.
BAD HABIT #6: DEFECTIVENESS: These People think they're unworthy of the love, attention, and respect of others and believe that no matter how hard they try, they won't be able to get a significant partner to respect them or feel they are worthwhile. That's why their relationship suffer.
BAD HABIT #7: MISTRUST/ABUSE: These people feel that they cannot let their guard down in the presence of other people, or else that person will intentionally hurt them. If someone acts nicely toward them, they assume that he/she must be after something. They don’t also trust anyone.
BAD HABIT #8: SELF SACRIFICE: These People put others' needs before their own, or else they feel guilty, and usually end up taking care of the people they're close to. Their relationship suffer because they get tired of giving too much with no love coming back to them.
BAD HABIT #9: SOCIAL ISOLATION: These people think they don't relate well to other people and/or feel that they don't fit in with any sort of group. They don't have friend and find it hard to get along with people. This is a bad habit.
BAD HABIT #10: DEPENDENCE: These people often feel helpless or aren't capable of making a decision without the aid of another person. They are so dependent on others and that makes them stink.
BAD HABIT #11: VULNERABILITY TO HARM: These people have a consistent fear that they will be involved in a catastrophe like an airplane crash, car accident, relationship breakdown, marriage failure, etc. Their fear always comes to pass.
BAD HABIT #12: ENMESHMENT: These people have a weak sense of personal identity and habitually cling to or "mesh" with other people to do so in order to feel like a complete person.
BAD HABIT #13: FAILURE: These people believe they will never succeed or that they're not as bright or talented as the people around them even in their relationships. Their constant expectation of failure is the reason why don’t succeed in their relationships.
BAD HABIT #14: LACK OF SELF CONTROL: These people lack self-discipline and want to quit a task at the first sign of frustration or failure. They end up quitting many relationships and don’t even know why. Now you know.
BAD HABIT #15: SLACKERS: These people will give up personal satisfaction or fulfillment in order to avoid conflict or confrontation. They will do everything to avoid conflict or run far from any form of confrontation making them suffer and bear so much pain in silence yet may never utter a word.
BAD HABIT #16: APPROVAL SEEKERS: These people place an extreme importance on other people's opinions and sometimes put a high level of significance on appearance and social status as a means to get attention. Being approved or admired is their greatest obsession. Approval seekers are sick and don't succeed in their relationships.
BAD HABIT #17: NEGATIVITY: These people have a way of focusing on the worst parts of life (disappointments, missteps, and embarrassing moments) and might have inflated fears that they will make a mistake that will result in a personal crisis, like relationship ruin.
BAD HABIT #18: INHIBITION: These people are afraid to show emotion or, for that matter even initiate a conversation. They are so cold emotionally and find it very hard to express themselves when they are in a relationship.
BAD HABIT #19: PUNITIVENESS: These people believe even the smallest mistake deserves punishment. Usually hold themselves—and others—to very high expectations; find it hard to empathize or forgive mistakes, their own and those of others.
Have I spoken to you through this post? Are you now wondering what to do if I touched your case? Now do this:
1. You may need to chat with me so I can help you resolve how yours started
2. You may choose to handle it yourself on your knees in God's presence.
3. If you have not given your life to Jesus Christ, start by doing that now. Say now, "Lord Jesus, I repent of my sins and I ask you to wash away my sins, come into my heart and be my lord and personal savior. I believe I am now saved, in Jesus name Amen! Now find a good church and become committed there.
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