Welcome to the world's hottest "Love and Relationship Blog on the net. Here are 16 obvious signs that a guy does not love you and is not into you and can dump you at any moment and vanish like the wind. Let's talk.
1. HE ONLY CALLS AT "Booty Call" HOURS: At 11pm, the booty call time zone begins. Anything that happens in a guy's life after 11pm is orientated to fulfilling the carnal need to copulate. He does not love you. If a guy only calls you after 11:00pm upward, you are an after thought waiting to be used sexually and afterwards dumped. You are a mere sex partner and not a life partner.
2. HE INTRODUCES YOU AS A FRIEND TO OTHERS, especially to Ladies: Most guys would rather burst into flames and be condemned to hell than refer to a woman they Love as "a mere friend." If he refers to you as a mere friend when introducing you to others, something is wrong. He does not love you.
3. HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE SEEN WITH YOU IN PUBLIC. If a guy loves you, he will have no problem appearing with you in public, well lit, intoxication free situations where he may be required to introduce you to people he knows. If he avoids introducing you to people he knows, he is hoping to avoid the ridicule or damage that can occur as a result of association with you i.e he doesn't want people to think you are together. Does that sound like live to you?
4. HE WILL GIVE TO YOU: You can give without loving but you can't love without giving. If a man sincerely Loves You, he will give you. "For God SO LOVE The world that he GAVE".....Love will always let go just to make someone else happy. If he too stingy to give or sacrifice for you, He does not love you.
5. HE IS ALWAYS TOO BUSY FOR YOU: We “men” are rarely too busy for a woman we really care about. We are just doing something or seeing someone better. You will be surprised at the ability of a man's loins to manufacture free time if is truly in love with you.
6. HE TREATS YOU LIKE PART OF "The Crowd." If a guy is into you, he won’t treat you like a part of the crowd…JUST COMMON. He will refer to you, glance at you, tease you etc. He may ignore you for brief spells then refocus on you but if you feel like a piece of furniture in a group of people and you are getting no attention at all from a guy then he probably is not into you.
7. HE STOPS ANSWERING YOUR CALL: When a mate rarely calls and send sms or stops answering the phone when you call, no matter how many clever excuses he produces, look beyond the lies, you are an afterthought. He is is far from loving you.
8. QUALITY TIME: He refuses to spend quality time with you. If the bedroom is the only place you see your lover, it means your relationship is strictly sexual. If he is not joining you for dinner and a movie, drinking and dancing, family barbeques and/or concerts and sporting events, it means one of two things: Either you’re a secret lover, or your mate does not consider you worthy of his “fun time.” Does that sound like love to you?
9. YOU SUFFER ABUSE: Of course, if you’ve been hit by your mate, your relationship is in trouble. For women: If your man hits you (even once) he does not respect or love you. Maybe he thinks he does, but he doesn’t. Look at his life and the people in it. Can you think of a person that he would never hit? Would he hit his mother?
10. YOU ARE NOT A PRIORITY: In every relationship, you are either an option or a priority. If he truly loves you, he will make you an priority and not an option. He are 8 signs you are only an option
#1 They expect you to give, but they don’t give back.
#2 They constantly let you down even when you have the smallest of expectations from them.
#3 You’re just a backup plan in their life when they have nothing better to do.
#4 They don’t care about your feelings. Even when you emotionally pour your heart out, instead of understanding you or hearing you out, they just argue back or try to justify themselves.
#5 You feel hurt all the time when you’re around this person.
#6 They treat others in a special way and give them a lot of attention, but you’re never given any preference no matter how hard you try to please them.
#7 You’re always taken for granted no matter how much you try to win their affection.
#8 They are completely selfish and care only about themselves. They always put their own needs before yours, and they try to manipulate you all the time. [Read: How to stop thinking about someone you like a lot]
11. HE DOESN'T COME HOME or CAN'T BE REACHED AT NIGHT: No matter what the excuse, if you’re sleeping alone at night when you are not a widow and your mate always seems to have fun that lasts until daybreak, something is wrong. If your man’s not at home, won’t answer his phone, but later admits to be ”hanging out all night,” chances are, he’s spent the night with another woman. Judge for yourself, does that look like love to you?
12. HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOUR LIFE: If you never get to share your emotions, your thoughts on the day, your hobbies and interests with your mate, there is no love. A person who loves you will listen to you talk about basket weaving for hours if that’s your passion. Not only that, but he will even help you weave the baskets! That’s what people who love each other do!
13. HE IS CONSTANTLY SEEING OTHER PEOPLE (either secretly or openly). If a person values, cherishes and appreciates you, they will do what it takes to keep you. This includes turning their back on all other prospects. If your man has told you that “they have to keep their options open,” or “after all, I’m still single,” or “I’m young…I can have friends…” that’s not love. Someone who loves you will ignore Randy and/or Mandy to make sure they keep their spot in your life. Don’t be angry that the person doesn’t choose to love you. It means you can do better!
14. HE DOESN'T HAVE YOUR BACK: Who do you call for help when you’re in trouble? Who helps you when you’re short on cash? If your significant one always denies your requests, there’s a problem. But if you’ve been dating Andy for 5 years and he hates to make you a sandwich, or rub your back, that’s not love. When you can’t get Andy to change your flat tire or loan you a twenty until payday, when you know for certain that he is capable, recognize that he is not in love.
15. HE DOESN'T TALK TO YOU: If you’re sitting quietly beside your mate, not saying a word, and this is a tradition in your relationship, someone’s not in love. People who love each other have great conversations that include humor, seriousness, emotion, action, stories, laughter and advice. If you struggle to make conversation with your mate, you can do better! Move on to someone who’s interested in you if you are single. But if you married, then work on your relationship.
16. HE IS “bored with” RELATIONSHIP: Some people don’t have the guts and nuts to end relationships. They will simply use you for as long as you stay around. Maybe they like the idea of having a mate; it makes them appear successful to certain others. When he says he is tired, believe it! Start taking steps to create a life without him. Coming next is "Signs she does not love you".
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