Looking for love with the wrong people can lead to unnecessary heartbreak and unexpected headaches, such as losing your job, your house, your family, friends, good reputation and self-respect. No matter how you look at it, some fantasies should never be fulfilled if you want to keep your life and sanity intact. Here are the 4 most dangerous liaisons. If your new crush falls under one of these categories, run, don't walk, to the nearest exit.
1.` THE EX FACTOR. People forget the part of the relationship that did not work for them and tell themselves `it's going to work this time around. But those who chase failed past relationships are gluttons for punishment. My question to you is, “WHY DO PEOPLE RETURN TO PAST RELATIONSHIP? Here are 5 reasons. One reason why it takes so long for people to break free of past relationships because they don't take their heart with them when they leave, and the basic nature of most people is to return to the place where they left their heart. "WHEN YOU TERMINATE A RELATIONSHIP YOU MUST RELEASE YOURSELF AND TAKE YOUR HEART WITH YOU. SEVER ALL TIES AND MOVE ON. Next is Love. The 3rd is loneliness. Some people become so accustomed to being with the ex that they feel inadequate without them. The 4th is guilt (people feel the need to make amends) or they are determined to change their ex-partner's bad behavior. The last is SOUL TIE: Read the article on “SOUL TIES and HOW TO BREAK THEM now. Whatever the reason for backtracking, in the end, nothing good comes out of MOST past relationships, and it's best to move on. It's not a wise decision to recycle relationships because the same problem that led to the breakup may continue to persist. This is one relationship you must avoid at all costs.
2. THE LEFT-OVER LOVER. Maybe it's not your ex who has been turning your head lately--maybe you have your eyes on your best friend's ex-girlfriend. This is definitely one fantasy that is better left alone. To have a relationship with your brother's or friend's ex is a no-no because, in the process, you may sever relationships with the people who are most important. Family and friends are hidden treasures. One of the consequences of this is that friends and family may perceive you as untrustworthy. If you are given consent to date someone else's ex, the new union could feel strained, and may not blossom into a serious, committed relationship. Even if the former lover and the good friend forgives or forgets, the person who's pursuing or dating the ex will somehow feel that [he or she] shouldn't be, and it puts a barrier in the relationship. It’s not a clean basis for a lifelong commitment because there is too much guilt involved. This is the 2nd relationship you must avoid at all costs.
3. DATING THE BOSS. There's good reason as to why MAMA warned you NEVER to get your honey where you make your money. A failed office romance can cost you your reputation, a promotion, or even your job. If you date a married co-worker or boss, things can get especially nasty at work. In most organizations, a high degree of professionalism and discretion is expected of the staff, and one doesn't get that kind of respect if there's an affair going on. Being the subject of gossip is a heavy burden to bear, but dating and dumping a boss is a totally different beast. A dumped boss can have the ex demoted, or downsized, and a spumed subordinate can wage a sexual harassment suit against the boss and the entire company. Because of this, many companies document, regulate, or to some extent, prohibit on-the-job affairs. It's true that some serious-minded men find their future spouses on the job and live happily ever after but never mix business with pleasure. Only when you've been played do you realize what a mistake it is to mix business with pleasure
4. LOVING THY NEIGHBOR. Dating a neighbor could be problematic, but it also might lead to true love, depending on the couple's chemistry and the maturity level of the persons involved. If you find some great guy who moves in NEXT DOOR and he looks good and you start to meet each other and talk, go for it. But if things go downhill, be prepared to suffer the consequences. You'll suffer a lack of privacy, because that person is in a position to know who's coming and going or if someone stays overnight. Stalking you would be easy. And if it was a particularly nasty breakup, you'll find yourself keeping odd hours so that you don't run into each other.
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