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Sunday 10 November 2013

20 TOP DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND INFATUATION By Andy Qwas. BB Pin: 3331963B, Twitter @AndyQwas






It’s amazing how much Hollywood has influenced your thinking and mine on the concept of what love is and what it’s not. Sometimes it's difficult to tell the difference between falling in love with someone, and being infatuated with them. The list below contains the top differences between love and infatuation and will help those who are having trouble discerning the difference.

1. Infatuation starts overnight and can also die overnight. Love starts slowly, grows and gets stronger with time

2. Infatuation has little or no depth but Love is deep and keeps growing deeper in depth in time.

3. Infatuation wants sex now and waiting can be very fatal. Love can wait and it’s willing to wait and delay sex until the time is right.

4. Infatuation is up and down emotionally. It can claim to be in Love now and the fall out of Love overnight. But love is stable and very consistent

5. Infatuation is only in love with just an aspect of the person like the guys money, her boobs, Ass, Face, etc. But Love is not in because of an aspect of the person. It’s in love with the entire person, the whole.

6. Infatuation is fickle and dry. But Love is faithful and warm.

7. Infatuation will daydream and cannot sleep, eat or concentrate because of someone they just met. But love has proper perspective. It very normal and will go about his or her normal activities of the day without being caught up with worrisome thoughts.

8. Infatuation is hostile and would break-up at the slightest irritations. But love is friendly and would grow stronger in the face of irritations.

9. Infatuation focuses and emphasizes only physical beauty but Love focuses and emphasis more of character than physical beauty.

10. Infatuation will seek to enrich self at the expense of the other. Love will seek to enrich the other at the expense of self.

11. Infatuation is in to get only. Infatuation is a getter. But Love is in to give. Love is a giver.

12. Infatuation is Self-focused but genuine love is other-person focused.

13. Infatuation is emotion based but Love is devotion based.

14. Infatuation will quit when the feelings die but Love will stick with an unwavering commitment in feelings or out of feelings.

15. Infatuation will accept the other person only when they meet certain standard and condition but Love provides unconditional acceptance of the other person.

16. Genuine love is focused and committed to only one person. An infatuated individual may be in love with two or more persons at the same time. Love has singularity and commitment. It is focused on one person.

17. Infatuation will cheat. Love is faithful

18. Infatuation is possessive and will restrain the other person from mixing others. It turns a partner from a soul mate into a cell mate. But Love is just the opposite. It will allow the other person full freedom to chat and fully relate with other people.

19. Infatuation has an idealized Image of the other person. It only see’s their strength. Love has a realistic view of the other person and see’s both their strengths and weaknesses.

20. Infatuation avoids pressure and will quit at the slight sight of problem. But Love will stick and work through challenges and problems in the relationship. Thanks for reading and please share this post.

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Saturday 2 November 2013

IF YOU SEE THESE 8 SIGNS, NEVER CONCLUDE THE RELATIONSHIP WITH "I do"By AndyQwas. Bb Pin:3331963B.



A girl said to me, “He’s a really nice guy but I just don’t know if James and I are meant to be together. I’m thinking about breaking up with him, but I’m not sure. How do I decide?”

It’s a question that plagues many singles: should I break up with my partner or stick it out a while longer? The following are sure signals that the long-range forecast for a relationship is worrisome:

1. YOUR PARTNER IS NOT HEALTHY EMOTIONALLY: If the person you’re dating is self-absorbed, paranoid, overly defensive, easily angered, or anything else that indicates an emotional health deficit, its best to move on.

2. REGULAR RELIGIOUS CONFLICT: Can you both agree and connect spiritually? Do you often experience intense frustration and disappointment in spiritual or religious matters? Are you deeply spiritual and your partner has little interest in spiritual matters? Do you sense something like a wall or barrier that separates you both spiritually? Quit now.

3. YOU HAVE NO FAITH IN YOUR PARTNER'S CHARACTER: Do you often question your partner’s character? Does your partner consistently demonstrate honesty, integrity, trustworthiness, and responsibility? If so, that’s a sign of strong character. If not, look out. The tendency toward deceitfulness and dishonesty has a way of spilling over into many areas of life.

4. DIFFERENT BELIEFS and VALUES: Does your values differ? Values are the principles that guide the way you live and make decisions. We all have an endless list of values: Excellence, honesty, generosity, compassion toward the poor, etc. If you and your partner differ radically on any one major value — or several less significant ones —severe conflict that will break up the relationship is just ahead.

5. YOU CAN'T CONNECT INTIMATELY: Do you find it difficult to communicate deeply with your partner? Intimacy for two people requires the sharing of their deepest feelings, thoughts, dreams, and fears. If you and your partner have a significantly different level of desire for heartfelt communication, the relationship will surely suffer.

6. CLASH OF INTEREST: Does your interests excites each other? The more hobbies and activities you both enjoy, the stronger your relationship will be. If you have five or six major interests, it’s a good idea to find someone who shares two or three of them or your future will be very tumultouse

7. YOU ARE NOT FREE TO BE YOURSELF AROUND THIS PERSON: One or both of you don’t feel free to be yourselves. No relationship is going to reach it’s potential unless both partners are authentic — unless they can genuinely be who they are. You will feel stifled and suffocated if you cannot consistently express your true self.

8. YOU CANT RESOLVE CONFLICTS: Relationships fall apart when conflicts occur and seldom, if ever, get resolved. In a solid relationships, two people must learn to manage their conflicts thoroughly and efficiently so that harmony prevails most of the time.

If you did spot areas of concern, take them seriously. The decision to end a mismatched relationship is very difficult but also incredibly wise.

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Tuesday 15 October 2013

38 FACTS YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT LONELINESS


You can be in a room full of people and still feel lonely. You can even be the life of the party and feel terribly lonely.

The reason is because loneliness is a soulish phenomenon, it's not physical. And there is no "cure" for loneliness. It's not a disease. It's a conceptual aftermath of Adam's creation - a byproduct. As a feature, it makes us want to mate and marry, and create family, relationship and community. And if the animals couldn't cure Adam's loneliness, neither can your Teddy nor your cat!

The Genesis principle is that a soulmate of the opposite sex is the ameliorator of loneliness.

It's why you crave a boyfriend for your loneliness. It's also why a man wants a woman.

WHAT LONELINESS IS........

1. Loneliness is sitting alone on Friday night wanting and needful of a man to go out with over the weekend.

2. Loneliness is going to the movie by yourself; it is seeing another girl come in with her boyfriend and saying to yourself, if only.

3. Loneliness is the emptiness of your flat on Saturday morning. It's you in your pyjamas foraging the fridge for comfort.

4. Loneliness is endless hours of DVDs over the weekend - Friday night till Sunday; alone, no bath!

5. Loneliness is calling Mary and she's busy; Andy...Frank...John... It is everyone occupied & busy when you need them most.

6. Loneliness is crying in the dark and wetting your pillow. It is you alone when the make-up is removed.

7. Loneliness is hoping for one to snuggle with - strong arms around you. You want a snuggle, and sometimes sex.

8. Loneliness is forcing yourself to go out with who you'd rather not - a debasing of self, a swallowing of shamefacedness. Hmmm!

9. Loneliness is the space filler who's always available. The one you cringe to be seen with at the mall, the one you're "using".

10. Loneliness is hating yourself after you've had sex with who you shouldn't have; it is self loathing after the fact.

11. Loneliness is clinging desperately to that relationship, afraid of letting go. What will become of you?! You'll be alone!

12. Loneliness is self-denial through religious declaration of invincibility. It's a "confession" braggadocio in front of the crowd.

13. Loneliness is a feeling of helplessness about things you cannot manufacture. Who can conjure a boyfriend or manufacture a man?

14. Loneliness is another glass of wine; another shot of whiskey, another stick of cigarette; it's another sex toy; and yet another loser.

15. Loneliness is the phone that won't ring, the text that wouldn't come; it is the man you want who can't see the obvious.

16. Loneliness is feeling so sad you don't feel like going to Church. It's hoping year after year for a husband.

17. Loneliness is binging on comfort food despite your ample weight. It is affirmation of uncare through consumption.

18. Loneliness is subjecting yourself to ecclesiastical predators; it is attending yet another "miracle" service to get a husband.

19. Loneliness is recourse to black magic in quest of a hubby; an exposure to infernal forces of darkness - malevolent spirit agents.

20. Loneliness is jealousy of your colleague who talks incessantly about her boyfriend; it's wishing she can be "sensitive".

21. Loneliness is another round of weekend parties; the exchange of phone number with the promising stranger who won't call.

22. Loneliness is picking up the phone in desperation and calling an old boyfriend, telling him he "just crossed" your mind.

23. Loneliness is feeling alone despite all your achievements; it's feeling incomplete despite your executive status.

24. Loneliness is your aunty urging you to get pregnant for a "correct" married man. "At least you'll have a child!" she persuades.

25. Loneliness is your friends urging you to marry the gigolo - the one you'll feed and clothe - just to have "Mrs." as prefix.

26. Loneliness is dreading going to see your mum over the weekend. It's trying to avoid the inevitable question of a grandchild.

27. Loneliness is being the chief bridesmaid for the umpteenth time. It is wishing the best man will make a move.
28. Loneliness is your friends fixing you up with yet another heavy baggage, the one from the UK who's not ok.

29. Loneliness is a proposition by a polygamist who doesn't think he is because his wife is white and you're black.

30. Loneliness is an advance from yet another green card holder stuck in a contract marriage who wants to "move on".

31. Loneliness is an obvious desperation for marriage it scares men off. All your friends are married with children you say!

32. Loneliness is yet another disappointment about a relationship that didn't end in marriage; a numb heartache.

33. Loneliness is another bout of depression, another volatile mood swing, another nastiness to those who care for you.

34. Loneliness is being afraid to go home after work, afraid of hearing your own echo in the emptiness of your house.

35. Loneliness is the sense of futility and frustration and anger. It is confrontation with helplessness and impotence.

36. Loneliness is our secret fears, our insecurities, our hidden longings in the left ventricles of our hearts.

37. Loneliness is not just the absence of a man in your life. It is the absence of a suitable man - the one you can be yourself with. The one you know will make you happy. The one you know you can give your life to, the one you see your future in. The one you respect and feel secure with; can talk to. The one to look up to, who cares. Your man!

38. Loneliness is when you enjoy sleeping outside your matrimonial home when you have a prince or a princess with their arms wide open to receive you.

Note: Before he comes, don't do anything rash, or stupid, or foolish - something you'll regret, maybe forever.

In the meantime, live your life! Enjoy it, it's yours! Enjoy your singlehood! Keep yourself occupied & busy. Don't define your life by what you don't have. Define your life by who you are. Find yourself. Create your joy. Go after purpose. Connect with Jesus, the Concerned God who first peeped and saw the need to eradicate Adams Loneliness by sending Eve. He is a healer of all lonely hearts. Talk 2 Him now.

I'm here if you want to ventilate. You know I'll never judge you. I Love you.

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Sunday 22 September 2013

THE MARRIED WOMAN, THE SINGLE LADY AND SEX. A Must Read for every single and couple.


THE MARRIED WOMAN, THE SINGLE LADY AND SEX.

A hearty wife invigorates her husband, but a frigid woman is cancer in the bones. Prov 12:4

4 THINGS SEX DOES TO A MARRIED WOMAN in the context of making love with her husband!

For a lady, love-making is an avenue for
a. Being sure of her husband's love
b. Enhancement of her husband's love
c. Fulfillment of her essence as a woman
d. Emotional connectedness with her husband.

EXPLANATION:For this to be achieved in a couples' life, certain issues must come to bear.

a. Great sex is not something that just
happens. It needs patience and effective communication

b. As married couple, you must rid yourself of sexual fears and myths by talking about it with each other only.

c. Never rush sex. Take your time. Your wife wants and loves foreplay. It takes an average of 20 for a woman to be ready for making love with her husband while it takes a few seconds for a man.

d. Hollywood's representation is absolute rubbish! If you throw your wife against the wall in the bid to be passionate, you will probably
ruin the whole thing, because you will need to fix the headache first!

e. The man must understand that his orgasm is not enough to bring fulfillment to his wife. He must learn to be patient. However, lack of orgasm in the woman should not be seen as sexual failure.

4 DANGERS OF ADULTERY
When a married person engages in extra-marital or adultery, there are several consequences.

a. It's a wrong seed into your home. It is like sowing the wind to reap whirlwind.

b. It will ruin your home eventually.

c. Your spouse might discover and just indulge in a revenge spree, resulting in both spouses indulging in adulterous relationships. It is the sure foundation for anguish, hurts, separation
and divorce

d. There are chances of binging sexual
infections into your matrimonial home.

SEX and THE SINGLE LADY.
a. It will destroy your self esteem. You have been conquered. The thrill of the chase is gone and you are not much valued by him again. It leads to searching more for acceptance and
usually, your body becomes the tool. But the word of God is what will give you a good self esteem, not a man.

b. It can lead to addiction, not because you enjoy it but because you are in search of love and acceptance. Sadly enough, sex will not equal love. They are miles apart and they are two different things. If it were love, then the
prostitute ought to fall in love with all her clients, but we know this do not happen.

c. Chances of STDs

d. Unwanted pregnancies and abortion. The sin of fornication often leads to more sins, telling lies, outright murder through abortion and a life of deception.

e. Seeds of doubts and mistrust are planted. Trust disappears because both of you start seeing yourselves as unfaithful.

f. You will eliminate God's favour from your life because you are violating His principles. This is not a good place to be.

g. Dangerous bonding with wrong persons. This is because sex is spiritual. You become joined in an illegal soul tie, and that incapacitates you in many areas.

i. Finally is the possibility of being lost eternally.

WHAT TO DO?

1. God does not condemn you if you are erring in any way. He also does not condone the sin, however. He loves you but hates the sin. His hands are stretched out to you with everlasting
love. Embrace that love and see your life turn around.

2. Ask him to re-organise your life for
you and He will. Ask Him to re-write your history.

3. Ask Him to bring dignity back to your
life and He will. He will not only forgive you, but He will also forget, and turn you into new specie! God bless you.

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Monday 16 September 2013

Club Adam&Eve


INTRODUCTION

Club Adam&Eve is an exclusive dating consultancy that uses real people, not computers, to find your dream partner. We’re based firmly on a foundation of family values, depth of understanding, dignity and confidentiality giving you the utmost personal attention to help you meet the person you’d like to spend the rest of your life with.

Through our exclusive matchmaking service, we are able to link you to that one person your heart has always yearned for, a true soul mate. Our world is getting smaller, yet at the same time, bigger. With many of us working and really busy, we yearn for the closeness and connection that only a similar soul mate can provide.

Our dedicated, passionate and professional team of specialist matchmakers take pride in connecting successful, educated and God fearing Singles using tried and tested methods.
As Devoted Christians, we’re committed to finding you that special someone, focusing on the things that matter to you most – their character and faith.

Whether you’re in Lagos or London, Paris or New York, your success is our success.  Learn more about us and, if you’re ready, take the first step in finding that special someone and see for yourself why we’re increasingly called “the love catalyst”


FAQS (FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS)

1. ARE YOU FOUNDED UPON CHRISTIAN VALUES? Yes.  We’re devoted, God-fearing Christians and these values permeate everything we do on your behalf.  Our faith is important to us, as it is to all our clients.

2. DO YOU HAVE AN OFFICE IN NIGERIA AND ANY OTHER COUNTRY IN AFRICA? Yes, we are proud to announce that we have our office at 5B Kudirat Abiola way, Alausa Ikeja, Lagos. We also have an office in Ghana and the Location is 12 Boundary close, Behind PH Hotels,  east legon Accra. All meetings are strictly by appointment.

3. DO YOU ORGANISE SOCIAL EVENTS? Yes.  We recognise that often, some clients feel more comfortable being introduced to a matched partner in the security and company of others.  Therefore, we occasionally host intimate and elegant social events as a way to increase your personal network and get to know potential partners.

4. DO YOU SCREEN CANDIDATES? Yes, and this is where we really shine.  By getting to know your potential partners personally, you can be sure that they are who they say they are.  We not only vet their personal identity, we go even further by checking their background.  Did he attend Legon Accra as claimed?  Is it true that he’s never been married?  Does she really come from the Ejiroghene family in Ughelli Delta State?  Secure in this knowledge, you can then have the peace of mind to focus on what’s most important to you-your compatibility.

5. DO YOU TAKE ON EVERYONE WHO APPLIES TO JOIN? Sadly, no.  The quality of our service – and your complete satisfaction -demands that we’re selective in our choice of candidates.  For some people, our service just isn’t appropriate and, if that’s the case, we’ll help you explore other introduction possibilities.  This is absolutely no reflection upon you – our selection criteria is very tightly defined and it simply means that another solution may be more appropriate.

6. HOW DO I KNOW IF THIS SERVICE IS RIGHT FOR ME? Try it and find out... all you have to do is contact us now via a simple phone call.

7. HOW OUR CONSULTING SERVICE WORKS? At Club Adam&Eve, our service is extremely confidential and neither your photo nor any of your confidential information will be shared with anyone, without your prior approval. Club Adam&Eve is a consulting service for your personal life, not just a dating agency. We strive to offer customized, highly confidential service to all of our clients. Again, all information you provide to Club Adam&Eve will be maintained in a highly confidential manner.

8. HOW PERSONAL IS YOUR SERVICE? Completely!  We’ll work hand in hand with you, as your own personal team, to make your goals reality.  Cheerleaders as well as consultants, we’ll help you every step of the way and are at your disposal night and day to answer your questions, concerns and queries.

9. I’M RELUCTANT TO USE A MATCHMAKING SERVICE – DOESN’T THIS MEAN I’VE FAILED? Absolutely not.  This is a natural reaction but is a symptom of our modern world, not your ability to find a partner.  Many of our clients are economic migrants, often posted to areas of the world where it’s impossible to meet a sufficient number of like-minded individuals.  They’re also busy people whom, through hard work and dedication to their careers, have simply had to prioritise their time to provide a stable base for their future.  Under these circumstances, meeting new people can be a real challenge and a time-consuming one at that.  If you had to get from Lagos to Paris, you wouldn’t walk, would you?  You’d use a plane and in that sense, we simply facilitate the most expedient way to meet ideal life partners, helping preserve the most valuable thing you have – your time.

10. IS DISCRETION GUARANTEED? Absolutely.  We share your details with no-one outside our organisation unless we have your specific permission to do so.

11. IS THE ONLINE REGISTRATION FORM THE ONLY WAY I CAN REGISTER? We encourage everyone to fill the form online but we have had requests to either come into our office and do it face to face or to even go over the contents of the form over the phone. We are happy to entertain both methods. To ensure we have the correct information, for the forms filled via the phone we'll need to follow-up with a confirmation email.

12. WHAT ARE YOUR LEVELS OF MEMBERSHIP? For now, we have 3 levels of membership, silver, Gold and Diamond.
13. WHAT ARE YOUR FEES AND WHY PAY: Club Adam&Eve offers all new members a one week free trial, which gives members access to all the features on the site, like searching, messaging, discussion boards and local quarterly hook up conferences live with De Love Guru, the founder of Club Adam&Eve, Andy Kwas. If you decide to subscribe once your trial has ended, you'll continue to get full access to all of these features. If not, you'll still be able to log in to the site, read any messages, search, participate in discussion boards and attend our quarterly local hook up conferences. Or if you decide the site is not for you, we make it very easy to close your account (or just 'hide' your profile should you wish to come back at another time).
Although there are free dating websites available, Club Adam&Eve is very different and we believe, much better! WE ASK FOR SUBSCRIPTIONS BECAUSE:
We believe that a service that members pay for is more likely to encourage people to join who are committed to finding a Christian partner
We have a customer service team that keeps the service running smoothly on a daily basis
Putting the site together and keeping technology and features up to date has required a significant investment in technology and development
We're spreading the word to build up membership and provide more choice for members. Membership is growing and we intend that to continue
Our prices are competitive with the largest secular African sites on offer. We are MUCH cheaper than any equivalent offline dating or introduction service. We aren't here for big bucks but the system will need to pay for itself…eventually!
14. WHAT ARE YOUR OPENING HOURS. We are available in the office normal working hours and happy to take weekend and evening appointments booked in advance.

15. WHAT DOES THE ONE-TO-ONE INTERVIEW INVOLVE? After an initial background and identity check – for the safety and integrity of all our members – we’ll arrange a discrete, in-depth and enlightening interview with one of our expert consultants.  Here, we’ll truly get to know you and your goals, aims and values.  Relaxed, reassuring and comprehensive, we’ll both use this information to formulate a personalised plan of action to make your dreams become reality.

16. WHAT KINDS OF SINGLES DO YOU ATTRACT? Our focus is on accomplished, intelligent and attractive professional Nigerian men and women. Every single member has been personally vetted to ensure that they are whom they say they are and we attract an eclectic mix of desirable singles including CEO’s, philanthropists, doctors, bankers, teachers, mature students and successful individuals from all walks of life.

17.  WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT? We’re consultants, not computers.  Our dedicated, passionate and professional team of specialist matchmakers take pride in connecting successful, affluent and educated singles using tried and tested, traditional methods.  We offer a discerning service for those uncomfortable with online dating, connecting globally isolated professional singles with age-old techniques that can be likened to the traditional village matriarch.  Her heartfelt and intimate knowledge of her townspeople – their values, culture, faith and personality – allowed her to personally introduce people to fall in love with an unparalleled success rate.

18.  WHAT’S YOUR SUCCESS RATE? We currently have an unprecedented 90% matchmaking success rate, as defined by the satisfaction of our clients.  We’re totally success-orientated, never content until you find the love of your life.

19.  WHY DID YOU START A DATING SITE? I was aware that so many Christian friends were struggling when it came to finding somebody. There were very few opportunities outside the local church. There were some dating sites available for Christians, but they were generally a bit tacky and focused on the USA and American Christians. So I developed the vision of starting a godly dating site, Club Adam&Eve of the highest quality, which people of all Christian traditions in Africa and the rest of the world would feel comfortable and safe with and which would give them a real chance to find somebody special. I also wanted it to be a place of community, which single could call their own, people who can feel rather marginalized in Church communities.

21. ‘HOW SAFE IS DATING ON CLUB ADAM&EVE WEBSITE? Fortunately the vast majority of our members NEVER encounter a situation where their safety is under threat. Our team works hard to keep you safe on our site. It's something we care deeply about. At the same time, you need to do your bit to look after yourself, your friends and for the wider Club Adam&Eve community.
Just like crossing the road or meeting new people in any environment, including a Church or in the course of a job, it is usually very safe but it is necessary to take care and some precautions. If you take note of the warnings and advice on security, you should be fine. It is rare to hear about any kind of violence or assault but most problems we hear about are:
People being a nuisance and phoning or texting when you no longer wish to have contact
People wanting financial advantage, identity, immigration, in short what we call “scammers”

22.  WHAT EVERY CLUB ADAM &EVE MEMBER NEED TO KNOW
Scammers, often described as Romance Scammers, are by far the most dangerous presence on Internet dating sites. Very simply, they are people both male and female who will try and build a relationship with you and then attempt to fraudulently obtain money from you.
Club Adam&Eve works very hard to detect and remove scammers and are generally successful, but we also ask our members to be vigilant and to report anything they feel is suspicious.
The basic rule is NEVER EVER SEND MONEY TO SOMEONE YOU HAVEN'T MET IN PERSON - even if you feel you really know them - and speaking on the telephone or on chat DOESN'T COUNT as actually meeting somebody! And even if you have met them -sending them money is a very bad idea.

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Tuesday 27 August 2013

8 FOOLISH MISTAKES LOVERS MAKE WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE.



QUOTE: IN YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP, YOU CAN EITHER FOCUS ON WHAT'S TEARING YOU APART OR WHAT'S HOLDING YOU TOGETHER.

 Every Heart has only one original Key that can unlock it: the one you own. But when you fall in Love, you make it two: the spare they trust another with.

Now see the great & foolish mistake most people make when they "Fall in Love". They throw away their own key & leave just the spare with their Lover.

This is WHY when they get hurt, they simply can't get back in to fix things because to hurt someone is like scattering a well arranged room. That person entered with the spare & turned your house upside down. But if you had the original Key, you can always enter in to re-arrange your house the way you want it. But because most people have lost their own key, they find it very difficult to move on after a hurt.

Warning: Never throw away your own key (the power to your own happiness) so the day your partner decides to mess up your well-arranged house, (ie, hurt you really bad), all you need to do is simply use your spare to open it, arrange your house as you want it, change the lock and be happy again.

8 STUPID THINGS YOU DO THAT SHOWS YOU HAVE LOST THE ORIGINAL KEY & WHAT THEY HAVE LEFT IS THE SPARE WITH THEIR LOVER.

 1. Quitting very vital roles in your life simply because you fell in Love. E.g, school, Job, as a father, etc.

2. Loving someone more than you Love yourself. Doing for another person what you have never done for yourself.

3. Rushing into marriage in hope that your partner will become your ultimate provider and source.

4.Abandoning your personal values, beliefs, faith just to please another person.

5. Changing yourself to please another person.

6. Allowing another person to drag your life along a part you never planned or even dreamt of.

7.  Giving someone control over vital areas of your life. Eg, your Bank account, your Facebook Password, certificate of your landed properties, spare key to your house, ATM password, etc.

8. Allowing a man to dis-virgin you when you know he can never be your husband.

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Sunday 23 June 2013

THE EMPTY BOX CALLED MARRIAGE


Most people get married believing a myth--that marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for: Love, understanding, companionship, sexual fulfillment, intimacy, friendship, etc. The truth is that marriage, at the start, is an empty box. It is neither beautiful nor ugly. It’s the 2 people that will determine if it’s going to be full, empty, beautiful or ugly.
  •         You don’t just wake up to find Love in marriages. It’s something the 2 people must decide to work and cultivate if they want to see it in their marriage.
  •         You don’t just wake up to find romance in marriages. Romance in marriage only comes because the 2 people decided to infuse it into their marriages.
  •          There is no understanding in marriage. Understanding is something people have to infuse into their marriage.
  •          You don’t just wake up to find hate, fight or divorce in marriages. Its people that infuse all these into marriages.

A couple must learn the art and form the habit of giving, loving, serving, praising—working so hard to keep the box full of beautiful things instead of ugly things. Whatever you are presently seeing in your relationship, understand that you brought it into the relationship. If it’s something you do not like, you can also remove it from the relationship. If you take out more than you put in, the box will be empty. Is your box (marriage) empty or full?
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Friday 21 June 2013

7 MYTHS THAT COULD KILL YOUR RELATIONSHIP...By Andy Qwas. Twitter @AndyQwas


INTRODUCTIONWhen you think a relationship should be a certain way, and yours isn't, frustration sets in. And frustration is the number one thing that eats away at a relationship and it's directly tied to myths. There are hundreds of myths about relationships. The problem with persistent myths is that they can erode a relationship's happiness. That's why it's so critical to bust the 7 below misconceptions. So without further ado, here are 7 myths about relationships that might surprise you.

1. MYTH: A GOOD RELATIONSHIP MEANS THAT YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORK AT IT.

FACT: The strongest most enduring relationships take lots of hard work. A healthy relationship is like a good garden. It's a beautiful thing but you wouldn't expect it to thrive without a whole lot of labor and TLC (Tender Loving Care). But here are 2 signs you to show you're working too hard on a relationship?
SIGN #1: Feeling unhappy more than you're happy. In other words, are you spending more time tending to the relationship and keeping it afloat than enjoying it? This unhappiness becomes less of a rough patch, and more like the "normal state of affairs”.
SIGN #2: Another bad sign is if you're trying hard to make improvements and changes, but you don't see the same level of effort on your partner's part. There has to be some sense of 'we're trying really hard, both making changes and that's making a difference. But if both of you are trying and you can see positive changes being made at least some of the time, then that's a good sign.

2. MYTH: IF PARTNERS REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER, THEY KNOW EACH OTHER'S NEEDS AND FEELINGS.

FACT: It's a setup to expect your partner to be able to read your mind because when you anticipate that your partner will know your wants, that's essentially what you're doing. But you are always responsible for communicating our feelings and needs. Stop expecting your partner to be a mind reader.

3. MYTH: IF YOU'RE TRULY IN LOVE, THE PASSION WILL NEVER FADE.

FACT: We often assume that if we genuinely love someone, "the passion, urging and loving" never go away. And if they do disappear, then "it must not be the right relationship" or "our relationship [must be]. But that’s a lie. Passion will naturally diminishes in all relationships and daily routines are one of the culprits. As your responsibilities grow and roles expand, couples usually have less and less time and energy for each other.
But this doesn't mean that the passion is gone for good. With a little planning and playfulness, you can boost passion. 

4. MYTH: HAVING A CHILD WILL STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE.

FACT: Studies have shown that relationship happiness actually decreases with every child. This doesn't mean that you start loving each other less or that you won't bond at all over your child, but the mounting challenges can complicate relationships. Having realistic expectations helps couples prepare themselves for their new roles. When you think that a child will improve your relationship, it only adds to the complications. I recommended planning ahead and talking about the changes that will occur when you have your first child or more kids.

5. MYTH: JEALOUSY IS A SIGN OF TRUE LOVE AND CARING.

FACT: Jealousy is more about how secure and confident you are with yourself and your relationship or the lack thereof. While you can be supportive, your partner must work on their insecurity issues on their own. No matter what you do, you can't make your partner feel more secure" or "change their self-confidence. Jealousy is not a sign of true Love in a relationship.

6. MYTH: FIGHTS RUIN RELATIONSHIPS.

FACT: In actuality, what ruins relationship is not resolving your fights and not the fight itself. Fights can be really healthy, and an important form of communication and clearing the air.
Also, the type of fight a couple has plays a role. Not surprisingly, nasty, scornful or condescending fights that leave couples resolution-less and not talking for days damage the relationship. Productive conflicts that help the relationship end with "some mutual decision about how to manage this disagreement.

7. MYTH: IN ORDER FOR THE RELATIONSHIP TO BE SUCCESSFUL, THE OTHER PARTNER MUST CHANGE.

FACT: Many times we're very good at the blame game and not so good at pondering how we can become better partners. Instead, we demand that our partners make such and such changes. Unless, there are extreme circumstances like abuse or chronic infidelity, it takes two to make changes. But even more than that, it's up to you to figure out what you can do to make the relationship a better one. It's a profound mental shift to look at what can you do and what changes can you make.

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Monday 20 May 2013

MESSAGE FOR GAYS AND LESBIANS. BB pin 2326600E. Twitter @AndyQwas

 Perhaps you are dissatisfied with your sexual orientation and would like to be straight. Or, perhaps you are straight now but feel urges to try homosexual activity. Or, perhaps you are perfectly happy the way you are, but want to see what this is all about. CONSIDER THESE 8 FACTS:

8 FACTS ABOUT HOMOSEXUALITY AND LESBIANISM

1. HOMOSEXUALITY IS NEITHER INHERITED NOR THE RESULT OF SOME GLANDULAR DISTURBANCE or the scrambling of genes or chromosomes.

2. HOMOSEXUALS ARE MADE, NOT BORN 'THAT WAY.' You became a homosexual or a lesbian when one of Satan's demons detected your susceptibility to demonic influence. This susceptibility could have been brought to you by a same-sex friend who was also troubled by a demon. Or perhaps a demon convinced you were a man in a woman's body or vice versa. Meaning, to be free, you need that demonic spirit to be cast out of you.

3. BURIED UNDER THE 'GAY' EXTERIOR OF THE HOMOSEXUAL ARE THE HURT, RAGE AND WOUNDS that crippled your capacity for healthy love with the opposite sex. Homosexuality is a learned response to EARLY PAINFUL EXPERIENCES and it can be unlearned.

4. GOD IS YOUR MANUFACTURER, AND HAS PROVIDED A USER MANUAL FOR YOU CALLED THE BIBLE. Any responsible manufacturer knows the operating parameters of his/her product. Therefore, he/she outlines the guidelines for use and maintenance which are necessary for proper, trouble-free operation.

5. GOD DIDN'T MANUFACTURE YOU IN DIRECT VIOLATION OF HIS OWN USER MANUAL. You were not born a homosexual. You became one after birth.

6. FAILURE TO OPERATE A MECHANISM ACCORDING TO THE SPECIFICATIONS IN THE USER MANUAL WILL CAUSE PROBLEMS. Sometimes these problems will develop over a long time. Never adding or changing the oil in your new car is an example. You may be able to drive tens of thousands of miles before the engine will stop.

7. THE BIBLE FORBIDS HOMOSEXUAL AND LESBIAN RELATIONSHIPS. However, He fully endorses sex between married persons. "Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable." Lev. 18:22

8. BEING A SEXUAL PERVERT IS THE WORK OF SATAN AND HIS DEMONS. They contaminated your normal, God-given sexual desires and twisted it in an attempt to mock “THE IMAGE OF GOD” in you. Being GAY or a LESBIAN is not normal. It is ABNORMAL, which means, “Abnormal Use”.

14 SIMPLES STEPS TO FREEDOM. WHAT TO DO

1. Understand that God Loves you and wants you perfectly normal
2. Understand that God is not angry with you. He simply doesn’t like your lifestyle and if you continue, God will have no choice but to land you in Hell.
3. Million of GAYS and LESBIANS have found freedom in Jesus and so can you. Nothing is impossible. You can be free….NOW.
4. Forgive anyone whom you think must have hurt you.
5. Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and personal savior. Do it now if you have not.
6. Find a Bible and start reading. Start with the Book of Saint John. Read a chapter a day and be consistent.
7. Find a good Pentecostal church and start attending.
8. You must find a way and open up to the pastor of the church. Let go of shame.
9. Tell the pastor YOU NEED DELIVERANCE. Homosexuality and lesbianism is a spirit. During deliverance, that spirit is cast out in the name of JESUS CHRIST.
10. You will notice after the prayer of deliverance that your desires and passions are gone without any struggle. Go and try it now. Trust me on this one.
11. Ask the pastor to fill you with the Holy Spirit with evidence of speaking in tongues. Then start praying in tongues for al least 30mins daily on your own.
12. Cut off some friends. Some of your old friends has to go.
13. You must also avoid some certain environment that has capacity to trigger your hunger again.
14. Start attending church regularly. Fast at least once a week and read your Bible everyday.
FINAL NOTE: If you will follow these 14 steps I have outlined above, you will come out clean and you will notice that you are perfectly normal again. My prayer is that you will seriously consider this solution before you zap to another part of cyberspace.

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Saturday 11 May 2013

HOW TO PULL A RELATIONSHIP THROUGH TOUGH TIME. Bb Pin 2326600E. Twitter @AndyQwas.


Two couples once wrote to me and said their marriages are collapsing along with the economy. Nkem and her husband, Walter, are coping with mounting debt while Joyce says she's tired of being the sole provider in her household while her husband, Leonard, depends on his faith to see them through. How do you pull a relationship through a tough time? (Couples names used with permission). Here are 6 suggestions.

1) ACKNOWLEDGE AND WORK THE PROBLEM: When the heat is on, don't take your anger out on your spouse. "You get in trouble, you get pressure on you, and what you do is called reflexive biting. You start snapping at the person around you, and you begin to feel isolated and alone. You've got to turn to your partner and say, 'Look, we're in a bad spot here, and we're going to deal with this together.

2) IDENTIFY THE STRESSORS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP: As the nation experiences an economic downturn, remember the problem is not your partner, but high interest rates, accumulating debt and looming unemployment. "Aim your guns in the right place. Once you have identified the issues, work together to find viable solutions.

3) HAVE EMOTIONAL INTEGRITY: Effective communication begins with honesty. "If you say you're going to look for a job in earnest, then look for a job. Don't say it if you don't mean it." Be open to receiving input from your partner even at the expense of your ego.

4) BE WILLING TO ASK FOR HELP: "Think about yourself as being at the bottom of a steep hill, and you're trying to pull a wagon up to the top of the hill. If you're both pulling it up the hill, you're going to get there. If one of you is pulling left and one of you is puling right, you're expending a lot of energy, and the wagon's not moving at all. Don't be afraid to admit that you can't manage the household debt alone, or that you're getting in over your head with credit cards.

5) LIST PRIORITIES, VALUES AND GOALS: It's not all about money. Both of you need to sit down and talk. List down your priorities, your values and goals and then plan along these lines. Make a plan. Find a way that the values of both partners can be honored. "It's like two corporations merging, and you need to have a board meeting.

6) HAVE AN ACTION PLAN: Dreams can motivate you to strive for the stars, but sometimes, you have to get your head out of the clouds. "The difference between a dream and a plan is a timeline. You've got to do checkups on yourself and ask, 'Am I moving forward? Devise a realistic schedule that you and your spouse can get excited about.

7. Share your experience with us. How did you pull through your own tough time. This is point number 7. Thanks for reading and please tell someome about my blog. Have you started following me on twitter? I told you I will gladly follow back. My twitter handle is @AndyQwas.

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Friday 10 May 2013

12 STRATEGIES TO CREATE FINANCIAL AND MARITAL HARMONY. Follow me on Twitter @AndyQwas. Bb Pin 2326600E.


1. MONEY CAN RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE. In fact, it's the number one problem in marriages and the number one cause of divorce.

2. THE COMMITMENT IF TWO LIVES. Dont ever underestimate the commitment in merging two lives together. The reason we fight most about money is because it's the most measurable. Sure, compromises also need to be made when it comes to issues of time, space and affection, but with money, the give and take is quantifiable.

3. STICK WITH SET GUIDELINES: In a relationship, each partner need to be comfortable with any guidelines set especially in the area of money and don't build resentment if you've agreed to it.

4. CREAT BALANCE: While financial independence is important, it must be balanced with accountability. Don't hide your spending habits from your spouse. Live within the boundaries you set and always consult your spouse before purchasing big items.

5. DONT LIVE A FAIRYTALE! Don't live a fairytale! Get real about how much money you have. Set a realistic budget and financial goals. Don't justify purchasing something you can't afford.

6. HAVE THIS UNDERSTANDING that Emotional problems can't be solved with money. Take a hard look at what's really behind your spending habits.

7. WATCH THIS. Don't let yourself get taken advantage of. Are you working 80 hours a week just so your spouse can live beyond your means? That's not being a partner; that's being a paycheck, and it won't fix the problem.

8. DO THIS. Negotiate, and then renegotiate when necessary. You made these life decisions together, and you can change them together.

9. EDUCATE YOURSELF. Marriage is a partnership, and both individuals need to be well-informed. Many problems — especially when it comes to money — stem from lack of knowledge.

10. ASK YOURSELF. When a financial issue comes up, ask yourself: Is it really a money problem or is it a relationship problem?

11. DONT DO THIS. Dont use money as a weapon against your partner.

12. JOINT vs. SEPARATE ACCOUNTS. I suggests separate accounts, because it's important to have independence and your own discretionary money.

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Tuesday 7 May 2013

10 WAYS TO CREATE AN UNBREAKABLE BOND IN A RELATIONSHIP. Bb bin 2326600E. Twitter @AndyQwas


Let me show you 10 ways to show your partner you are truly committed to him or her. Use these 10 ways to demonstrate to your partner that your commitment will stand the test of time. Share this post after reading.

1. STOP THREATENING TO LEAVE. Nothing shows a lack of commitment like talking about walking away. We’ve all been there — the argument gets heated and it’s the same argument you’ve had a thousand times. Your mind starts to think, “My life would be so much easier if I were gone …” While it’s completely normal to have these thoughts, it does nothing for the level of commitment your partner feels from you.

2. YOU HAVE NO LONG-TERM PLANS TOGETHER: Have you taken some time with your partner to develop plans for the future? Have you planned a vacation, talk about buying a house, share dreams about what you’re going to do when you retire. Yes it seems far away and but thats the point!

3. TOUCH YOUR PARTNER: If you are not married, jump this point now. If you are married, Nothing communicates support like physical intimacy. By touching your partner — a hug while they are cooking dinner, an unexpected kiss — you reinforce your commitment to them. And casual touching can convey commitment because it shows a level of familiarity and ease that is hard to find outside of a long-term relationship. Pay the price by getting married and you too can touch.

4. SPEAK HIS/HER LOVE LANGUAGE: When you communicate your love in a way that is meaningful to your partner, it shows your commitment. It also shows you have taken the time to understand what makes him/her tick and they know that you will be by his/her side through thick and thin. Have you read "The 5 Love Languages?"

5. RELIVE YOUR HISTORY: One of the great things about a relationship is the shared history that you have with your partner. A fun way to demonstrate your commitment is to relive that history. Plan a picnic to the spot where he proposed. Go out to dinner at the restaurant where you first kissed. Rent the movie you watched when you first held hands. Revisiting these shared moments strengthens your bond and shows your partner that you are committed to keeping the love alive.

6. GET CREATIVE: Everyone loves physical reminders of why they are valued. Your partner is dying to get one from you. Write a poem about your partner’s best qualities. Make him/her a mix of all their favorite ’80s songs. Give a photo book with pictures of your love over the years. These tangible reminders of the times you’ve been together not only send a strong message of commitment — they can be fun to make too.

7. DAILY COMMUNICATE: Dont ever let a day pass without talking or communicating with your partner. Communication is the blood life of any relationship. No matter where you both are, find a way to connect and stay in touch.

8. SHOW SUPPORT: When your partner is feeling down, he/she doesn’t need you rubbing his/her face in the dirt. You are the one, maybe the only one, he/she can turn to. Showing that you support him/her even when they are wrong is an incredible demonstration of your intention to stay by his/her side, no matter what.

9. LISTEN MORE TO HOW HE OR SHE FEELS: In this day and age of innumerable distractions, we hardly listens anymore. We are all so busy planning what we will say next that we don’t really hear what the other person is saying. If you take the time to truly listen to your partner without planning your response, your partner will feel like you understand them in a way that no one else does. And that’s a great recipe for happiness.

10. FOLLOW THROUGH WITH YOUR COMMITMENT: One of the best ways to show you are committed is to follow through with what you said. If you say something to your partner, then follow through till you have done it. When you follow through with these commitments, it shows your partner that you value him/her — and the relationship — above everything else.

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Monday 6 May 2013

THE 9 CATEGORY OF LOVERS. Bb Pin 232600E. Twitter @AndyQwas.


Building a Relationship is like watching a movie with a remote control in your hand. You can hit the PLAY button to watch the movie straight on or you can intermittently Stop, Rewind, Fast ward, Slow motion, Eject, Pause, Repeat or even Record the movie. Permit me to use the same terms on your remote control to analyze the 9 categories of Lovers.


1. LOVERS ON STOP
2. LOVERS ON PAUSE
3. LOVERS ON REWIND
4. LOVERS ON FAST-FORWARD
5. LOVERS ON EJECT
6. LOVERS ON RECORD
7. LOVERS ON SLOW MOTION
8. LOVERS ON REPEAT
9. LOVERS ON PLAY

1. LOVERS ON STOP: These are tired lovers who feel they can’t love again. They have resigned themselves from the game of Love. Such people feel they are not lucky in the game of love. They want to love but they always say, “I don’t have a heart to love again”. They have given up on love.
REASON: They are in pains. They have been hurt bitterly in the past. Such people have unfinished biz with their past. They have issues they are yet to resolve. These unfinished businesses are called wounds.

2. LOVERS ON PAUSE: These are people who are stuck to a particular painful experience in their past. Time has moved and age is telling fast on them but internally, they have not moved a step since the event happened. Such events could range from rape, abortion, divorce, relationship break up, turned down proposals, death of someone so dear, loss of a sweet relationship, etc. The pain is so fresh that it seem as though it just happened yesterday. To such people, the past is their releality. They have never lived and will never live until they can resolve the issues they have with their past. Some are stuck to 2011, 2005, 2000, 1990. Are you a lover on pause?

3. LOVERS ON REWIND: These lovers have a hole, a vacuum in their heart that they believe nothing in their present can fill. They believe their best years is in their past, their yesterday. If they must be happy, they must recall their source of Joy to something beautiful in their past. Such people tell beautiful stories a lot but it’s all connected to their past. They criticize their present and don’t believe it can be as good as it was yesterday. Are you a lover on rewind?
REASON: They are hurting. They have unfinished biz with their past. They have to break with their past, resolve it and move on. Life is not lived by looking backward. Imagine driving a car and looking at the rear mirror. You will simply hurt yourself.

EJECT LOVERS: Lovers on Eject Mode are mostly divorcees and people whose heart have been broken. They don’t believe in love at all. In their philosophy, Love is a fantasy, a dream and a mirage. They have ejected themselves from the game of love. They see Love Gurus like us as lairs and deceivers. They hate marriages, and don’t believe in love. Another category of such people are perverts like gays and lesbians. To them, Love can only be found in another source because for some reasons unknown to them, the real source did not work for them.
REASON: They use to believe in love until someone hurt them so bitterly. Such people who hurt them could range from a lover, a dad, a close relative, an uncle, etc. Now they are in Pain and highly negative toward anything called love. Such people have unfinished biz with their past. The truth is: they are badly in need of love and have concluded it’s simply impossible to find love except through a perverted medium or none at all.

LOVERS ON RECORD: Have you noticed that whatever you have on record is stored and preserved? I consider this group as singles guys who are anointed to date a woman but will never commit to her. The relationship is on, playing but from an unreal perspective. Single ladies, Look for a man that value your worth enough to commit to you. Note that guy that keep promising you marriage, daring you with no concluding date, claiming things are still tight for him and is scared to seal a commitment to you with a wedding ceremony. Marriage has nothing to do with being wealthy but it has everything to do with making a commitment to settle down. Anyone who is not willing to sign that marriage contract doesn't value your worth to settle down with you. If you see a guy who is ready to take you to the altar, give him the best of your life. He deserves it. Lovers on Record are endless daters. The cannot commit.
REASON: Fear, fear and fear

LOVERS IN SLOW MOTION: These people are the closest group to being normal but are still very sick. They are very slow in what they do. Their real problem is fear, lack of trust and suspiciousness. They believe in love but are scared. Such fears ranges from fear to propose, fear to love again, fear to make of commitment, fear to say yes to a proposal, fear of falling in love. Can’t trust anyone. Suspects everyone. They are slow in making a commitment to anything. Their best slogan, “once bitten, twice shy. REASON: They are scared to love again because of unfinished biz with their past. They are so scared to love again so they don’t increase their pain.

LOVERS ON REPEAT: People in this category are mostly addicts. These are people who live their lives in circles. They have so much activities but little productivity. They are stuck to the same mistake all their life. They are addicted to something that is killing them but they simply can’t stop. Repeat lovers continues in the pattern of repeating a painful past that makes their life move in circles. If you are presently addicted to anything, you are in this category.

FAST-FORWARD LOVERS: These are desperate lovers.  They don’t know how to play normal. They are in great haste and very impatient. They don’t know how to wait. If they need something but don’t know how to get it, they will scheme and manipulate. They are desperate to marry and will do anything to woo a mate, male or female. They attend weddings a lot wishing all the time is their wedding. Their life is all about relationship and marriage. They don’t know how to make a relationship  play normal. They rush it so it ends before it even starts.  Because they are desperate, they end up making very stupid mistakes that ruin their relationship. Such people can’t hold themselves. They can even propose marriage on their first day of meeting.
REASON: These are running from a pain in their past. They are using hurting people who use the future and what it can be for them as a tool of escaping from their present pains and sorrow. They have unfinished biz with their past. They have wounds, issues yet unresolved with their past.

PLAY LOVERS: Among the 9 group of lovers, this is the only healthy group that is normal. I will tweet the 10 steps on how to enter into this group. Follow me on twitter now. But below are a few points to get you started. These group have been able to resolve their past issues. They have dealt with their past. One sign you are in this group is being able to freely talk about issues you were once ashamed to talk about or a subject no one dare not mentioned in your hearing and now you are calm both hearing and talking about it.

HOW TO WORK YOUR WAY INTO THIS GROUP

1. Never bury a painful past. Resolve it by talking. “Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed”. Secrets are emotional poison. They will hunt you down till they crush you. A secret is anything you know that no one knows. If your secret is evil, you find find someone whom you can trust and confide in to talk to. You should also know that thats why we are here. Lets chat. You can talk to me either on bb or whats app.
2. Work on yourself. Stop pointing fingers at anyone. Take responsibility.
3. Forgive anyone that has hurt you, both dead and alive. Forgive yourself too.
4. Ask God to help. Jesus is an expert in resolving painful past. Ask him to help you right now.
5. Fall in love with yourself again. Follow me on twitter now to read the remaining 5 hot points now.

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Thursday 2 May 2013

THE 10 ROCKY MOMENTS OF EVERY RELATIONSHIP. BB Pin 232600E. Twitter@AndyQwas


FINANCIAL STRUGGLE; There's no denying THE FACT that money is responsible for a big chunk of relationship problems. The tough economic climate doesn't help, but even in the best of times, most couples will go through a rough patch.

THE INLAWS;You met the parents, the parents met the parents, and the wedding went smoothly with both sides of the family. Whoa, did you have it easy! But even if you made it through all that, you're not done yet. Couples can still expect to struggle with extended-family issues, like how often the grandparents will visit, and what boundaries to set.

WHEN THE KIDS BEGIN TO ARRIVE; As blissfully happy as you may be with your new baby, this adjustment period, during which you struggle to figure out who picks up the baby when she cries or finds childcare, is a rough one.It can definitely lead to some rocky moments.'You just need to give yourselves time to figure out how to share the responsibilities.

WHEN THE KIDS BEGINS TO GROW UP; Once your children are old enough to talk and maybe even dress themselves, you can both take care of them and manage to get a daily shower. That'll get your relationship back to normal, right? Not so fast! If you do not watch it; your parenting decisions can divide you as a couple. You should both be comfortable with what you teach your child.So find a compromise that encompasses both of your values, such as, 'We won't lie to the kids, but some details they don’t need to know until they’re older' before you put the little one in the middle of your opposing views.

SEX ISSUE. Whether you're dealing with tough issues outside of your marriage, or simply can't find the spark, most long-term couples find their sex lives ebb and flow. Sex can be a major source of trouble if not properly managed.

WHEN FACING A MAJOR DECISION. Be it whether to accept a new job or when to start trying for another baby, two can be a crowd when it comes to decision-making. Frankly, even less life-changing but still important decisions, like home remodelling, can be a source of stress. For big decisions, try making your own pros and cons lists, and then discussing them together. For smaller choices, try to work out a compromise before you're in an overcrowded public setting, or agree to disagree until you get home and can discuss calmly and in private.

THE EMOTIONAL DRYNESS. Much like you might get sick of eating even your favourite salad for lunch every day, you may go through the uncomfortable period of just not feeling connected to your partner. As the years pass, kids, jobs, and other commitments take up more of your time, and while you may think your relationship will nonetheless remain strong, it can suffer. Make time to consciously be together, even if it's just sitting on the couch, touching and being emotionally connected rather than just being in the same room.

THE UNPREDICTABLE TRAGEDY. You've probably figured out how to deal with little daily stresses by now, but unfortunately, it's also common to get walloped by unpredictable ones — like facing an addiction, an affair, job loss, or chronic illness. Maybe your mother passed away unexpectedly, or your husband was diagnosed with diabetes. Sadly, there's no easy solution when events like this pop up, and they might continue disrupting your lives for some time. It may be frustrating or heartbreaking, but the key is to know you're in good company. 'Recognize that rough patches — or rough years — are normal in even the best couple relationships:

AS AGE COMES. You're not ready for the early bird special just yet, but your wild-child days seem increasingly far away. Nostalgia for the sweet flirtation of a new relationship or the excitement of your first job might make you feel stagnant in your older, wiser state. A little midlife crisis is normal, but it doesn’t have to spur a rough patch in your relationship. Instead, exploring a personal passion can help you bring excitement back into your partnership, and shift a negative or stuck dynamic.

A BIG FIGHT OVER NOTHING. There are major issues couples commonly squabble over — like sex, money, and kids, all of which we’ll get to in a minute — but if you're going through a rough spot over what seems like nothing at all, you're not alone. 'Marriage is a lightning rod that absorbs stress from every source — past and present. When stress gets high enough, even the best couple can look like the most dysfunctional one. Just about anything can turn into an epic battle, including something as insignificant as which knife to use to properly cut a tomato. To stop the stressful cycle, take a deep breath and before your scream, think about whether the knife is really the problem. And if you already blew up, apologize and explain what's actually bothering you before it turns into a bigger issue

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Wednesday 1 May 2013

10 SECRETS YOU MUST NEVER TELL HIM I TAUGHT YOU. Twitter @AndyQwas & Bb Pin @ 2326600E


The 10 Secrets are hidden and coded in 10 Questions which you must answer. If you can find the answers to these Questions, then you have also found the secrets I said you must never tell him. Lets Talk:

SECRET #1: NURTURANCE. Can you mummy him? Ladies, do you know that a man’s life is a journey to find the happiness he once felt inside the womb of his mother? Could you imagine the repercussions if you were able to make him feel this way? You wouldn’t be able to get rid of him! The great thing is nurturance is one of your most basic female instincts. Most guys do want that little tiny bit of mommy in a girlfriend. This is secret number 1

SECRET #2: Can you make him feel like a king anytime He is around you? Can you bring out the man out of him? Do you know what to do?  This is secret number 2

SECRET #3: Do you know the true meaning of submission? Can you truly submit to him? Can you come under? Can you be quiet when he talks? This is secret number 3.

SECRET #4: Can you give him what no girl can give him? Hmmm! There are 7 things you can give a Man which no girl can give him. A topic for another day. Sex is the least thing to consider. If good sex is all you have as a tool to give a guy, its just a matter of time before he will walk away. You are highly replaceable. This is secret number 4

SECRET #5: Can you support his dreams. Can you be his number one Fan or are you always attacking his dreams and plans anytime he shares them with you?  This is secret number 5. Be his nuber one fan.

SECRET #6: Can you stop depending too much on him? I know he is the head and therefore should provide for you. But everyman wants a woman who can assist from time to time and not throwing her whole life burden on him. Men love independent women. This is secret number 6.

SECRET #7: Can he just have some peace around you? Can you stop Nagging him? Can you stop repeating the facts that you have need of something? Can you stop complaining too much? Constantly complaining over your unmet needs only drives him far. This is secret number 7

SECRET #8: Can you stop correcting him? Can you stop teaching him? His ego will fight you if you do. There are ways to pass a truth he cant see to a him. Stop sitting over his life as his teacher even if he just gave his life to Christ yesterday and you have been Born Again for years. Dont. This is secret number 8

SECRET #9: Can you stop acting Like a Man? The real beauty of a woman is in her ability to be feminine. Act, talk and walk like a woman. This is secret number 9.

SECRET #10: Can you be more attractive physically? Can you look again at your wardrobe? Have you found his taste? Can you start dressing more attractively? Now i didnt say expose your boobs and tighs! I just said be more attractive with your dressing. If you dont know how, then ask someone who does. Never confuse attractive dressing to sexual dressing. This is secret number 10.

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Monday 29 April 2013

10 WAYS TO BUILD TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP. Twitter @AndyQwas & Bb Pin @ 2326600E


If you are looking for ways to improve your relationship, then you may want to start here. I am going to show you 10 ways to building trust in a relationship. Usually, we think to improve a relationship, we must always make things exciting to keep the romance going. Well, that would be wrong. And the last thing you would think that does improve the level of trust in a relationship is… predictability!

1. BE PREDICTABLE. Let your word and actions match. It’s an error to let your actions violate what you said. Be CONSISTENT and RELIABLE.

2. SHARE PERSONAL INFORMATION ABOUT YOURSELF. Relationships need to be two-way streets. Why should another person confide in you if you will not share personal information about yourself? If you want to build trust in a relationship, then you need to become vulnerable yourself.

3. DON’T LIE. Don’t keep secrets from your partner. Once your partner finds out about something you are keeping a secret (and believe me they will), you better believe they won’t be able to trust you anymore. And why keep secrets from your partner anyway?

4. YOUR PARTNER ISN’T A MIND READER. Tell your partner what you want! Stop expecting your partner to know what’s on your mind when you have refused to talk. Being reluctant to communicate your needs to your partner will just worry them needlessly.

5. BE TRUSTWORTHY IN THE LITTLE THINGS. The other person needs to be able to trust you in the little things before he is going to trust you with the big things. If a person cannot trust you to show up on time or remember to do something that you promised to do, why should she trust you with something more important?

6. KEEP THE OTHER PERSON'S CONFIDENCE. What a person tells you in a relationship needs to stay in that relationship. If you are a gossip, then you are going to have a hard time building trust.

7. DO THINGS THAT ARE IN THE BEST INTEREST OF THE OTHER PERSON. If you want to build trust, you need to make choices that are beneficial to the other person and the relationship. Learn to put their needs ahead of yours. That’s what being selfless is all about in a relationship.

8. SPEND TIME WITH THE OTHER PERSON. In this era of text messaging and email, it can be easy to spend very little time with the people you love. If you want to build trust in a relationship, you need to spend time together. There is no replacement for spending face-to-face time on a regular basis.

9. BE WILLING TO SAY “NO.” Suppose your partner communicates a need that you don’t want to give, it is OK to say no. On the other hand, it is OK for your partner to ask. Your partner will respect you more if you don’t say yes to everything they demand of you. Being a separate person helps build trust in a relationship.

10. APOLOGIZE WHEN YOU MAKE A MISTAKE. Nothing shatters trust faster than hurting the other person and then refusing to take responsibility for a bad choice. Be willing to say "I'm sorry" when you make a bad choice that hurts the other person.

In summary, building trust in relationship does take some work. And sometimes you will stumble, but continue to move forward. I have given you  10 WAYS TO BUILDING TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP you can use right now to strengthen your relationship and make it as strong as a 1,000 year old Oak tree.

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