If you are looking for ways to improve your relationship, then you may want to start here. I am going to show you 10 ways to building trust in a relationship. Usually, we think to improve a relationship, we must always make things exciting to keep the romance going. Well, that would be wrong. And the last thing you would think that does improve the level of trust in a relationship is… predictability!
1. BE PREDICTABLE. Let your word and actions match. It’s an error to let your actions violate what you said. Be CONSISTENT and RELIABLE.
2. SHARE PERSONAL INFORMATION ABOUT YOURSELF. Relationships need to be two-way streets. Why should another person confide in you if you will not share personal information about yourself? If you want to build trust in a relationship, then you need to become vulnerable yourself.
3. DON’T LIE. Don’t keep secrets from your partner. Once your partner finds out about something you are keeping a secret (and believe me they will), you better believe they won’t be able to trust you anymore. And why keep secrets from your partner anyway?
4. YOUR PARTNER ISN’T A MIND READER. Tell your partner what you want! Stop expecting your partner to know what’s on your mind when you have refused to talk. Being reluctant to communicate your needs to your partner will just worry them needlessly.
5. BE TRUSTWORTHY IN THE LITTLE THINGS. The other person needs to be able to trust you in the little things before he is going to trust you with the big things. If a person cannot trust you to show up on time or remember to do something that you promised to do, why should she trust you with something more important?
6. KEEP THE OTHER PERSON'S CONFIDENCE. What a person tells you in a relationship needs to stay in that relationship. If you are a gossip, then you are going to have a hard time building trust.
7. DO THINGS THAT ARE IN THE BEST INTEREST OF THE OTHER PERSON. If you want to build trust, you need to make choices that are beneficial to the other person and the relationship. Learn to put their needs ahead of yours. That’s what being selfless is all about in a relationship.
8. SPEND TIME WITH THE OTHER PERSON. In this era of text messaging and email, it can be easy to spend very little time with the people you love. If you want to build trust in a relationship, you need to spend time together. There is no replacement for spending face-to-face time on a regular basis.
9. BE WILLING TO SAY “NO.” Suppose your partner communicates a need that you don’t want to give, it is OK to say no. On the other hand, it is OK for your partner to ask. Your partner will respect you more if you don’t say yes to everything they demand of you. Being a separate person helps build trust in a relationship.
10. APOLOGIZE WHEN YOU MAKE A MISTAKE. Nothing shatters trust faster than hurting the other person and then refusing to take responsibility for a bad choice. Be willing to say "I'm sorry" when you make a bad choice that hurts the other person.
In summary, building trust in relationship does take some work. And sometimes you will stumble, but continue to move forward. I have given you 10 WAYS TO BUILDING TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP you can use right now to strengthen your relationship and make it as strong as a 1,000 year old Oak tree.
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Wow very illuminating.
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