HOW TO KNOW YOUR MAN IS SLEEPING. Twitter @AndyQwas. Bb pin 2326600E (For Single Ladies)

1. If your man is asleep, you need to wake him up before he does something foolish which will affect your future. In fact, it is foolish of you to be in a relationship with a man who is asleep. To be asleep is to have a wrong perception of life and what it demands from you.

2. He is asleep if he has no clear vision, plan or purpose for his life. Ask your man what he wants to be in the next 10 years. If he cannot give you a simple answer, the dude is asleep.

3. He is asleep if he does not nurture you emotionally, spiritually and mentally. The process of nurturing is what deepens the level of intimacy in your relationship.

4. He is asleep is he doesn’t listen to you when you talk. He may not agree with you but a man who likes you and wants you in his life ought to listen to you and understand what you are saying. He should understand your pain and your pleasure. If he doesn’t understand you then he is asleep.

5. A man who says he wants to get married to you but has no money is a joker. Please ask him nicely, ‘How will you put food on the table when we get married?’ He doesn’t need to be a ‘millionaire’, but he should have enough to handle his responsibilities.

6. If he thinks that ‘you are his wife already’,- even though he has not done all that is required to make you his wife-and demands sex from you like a whore, he is asleep and probably having a nightmare. Until he puts that ring on it, he is NOT your husband and should stop deceiving himself.

7. A man who finds it difficult to devote time to you has no idea what is going on, he is in la-la-land and having a dream. If he really loves you and wants you in his life, he will call you, listen to you, spend time with you and devote a good portion of his time to you. Love is a verb. It is not enough to say it. He should show it.

8. If he wants to live off you, that is, collect money from you, spend your money, use your money to buy his toys and change his wardrobe, he is a sleeping joker. That dude should man up and get a job or leave you alone, unless of course you want to suffer for the rest of your life with a man who is asleep.

9. If he wants you in his life, he should treat you with honour and respect. You should stop enabling bad, unhealthy behaviour. Stop making excuses for him. You are NOT his mother! Stop mothering him. If you encourage a man who is asleep to continue in his sleep, your relationship will become nothing but a terrible nightmare. What else do you expect from a man who is asleep? If you want a happy relationship and an awesome future, wake that man up!

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HOW TO MARRY A GOOD WOMAN IN 10 SIMPLE STEPS...Bb pin 2326600E. Twitter @ AndyQwas.

1. You have to first of all be a good man before you go searching for a good woman. Develop your character and be prepared to connect with her when you meet her.

2. Because like attracts like, you will attract the quality of woman you deserve, nothing less, nothing more. You will attract ‘your type.’

3. Men use their ‘lower head’ to think more than their hearts, so you must be careful when making this decision. When a man sees a woman, the first thing that comes to his mind, (okay, for the benefit of doubt, let’s say it is the second or third thing) is sex. No matter how ‘spiritual’ the man may think he is, sex is usually at the top or very near the top of his priorities. Never base a decision to get married to a woman based on your sexual chemistry. It may prove quite disastrous in the end.

4. Never judge a woman by her outward appearance. She may look as beautiful as Miss world but be ‘satan’s sister.’ She may fool you by her looks, sexual energy and smooth words, but she cannot deceive you with her life style. If you study her carefully, you will discover who she is.

5. By their fruit you shall know them. Marry for character, compatibility and not for the beauty. If you have been deceived by sex, may the Lord deliver you today.

6. If you want to get married to her because of her money, you might as well hang a sign around your neck, with large letters in red reading ‘SLAVE,’ because that is what you will become in that marriage.

7. This woman must be willing to follow your dream and help you achieve it. If she’s ready to do everything within her power to see your dream manifest, she’s the one for you. Don’t let her out of your sight! Another thing, you must be willing to do the same for her to qualify as her husband.

8. One sign you should never ignore is the presence or lack of peace in your heart about this woman. If you have no peace in your heart every time you think about her, dude, she’s not for you. If you have solid, unshakeable peace in your heart, she’s the one. Move quickly towards marriage.

9. Wrap things up very quickly. 12 months is enough to know a woman. Don’t waste your time on unimportant things. Get to meet her parents, do the introduction, fix a date for the wedding. Get the wedding out of the way.

10. Be the man. Handle the responsibility of marriage. Love your wife the best way you can. Enjoy the wife of your youth, be a blessing to her and have an awesome marital journey.

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YOU, MR. PERFECT and MARRIAGE. (Single Ladies Only) Bb Pin 2326600E. Twitter @ AndyQwas.

1. Searching for Mr perfect will cause you nothing but heartaches. It is an endeavour in futility because no such creature exists.

2. Why do you seek perfection when you are not perfect yourself? Why do you place such an insurmountable obstacle in front of you? Why have you made your life and relationships difficult because of such an irrational demand?

3. Unless God sends down an angel to marry you, which is an impossibility, you have to choose a human being, like the rest of us. Any woman you see enjoying a great relationship worked on that relationship.

4. Understand that there are no short cuts in the search for Mr. Perfect. Perfectionism may work well in a novel, movie or television show, but in real life it will frustrate you and lead you to massive pain.

5. Are you compatible with this guy? Can you live with him in peace without going crazy? If your answer is yes, then you are in a very good place. You can deal with the ‘minor’ details later. However, if your answer is no or if you had rather dip your hand in a pot of boiling oil than spend time with this guy, I will suggest you look for another guy.

6. Not having lots of money is not a good reason to give up a great relationship. A guy may have lots of money but be abusive and insensitive to your feelings. If this guy, who doesn’t have lots of money, makes you feel on top of the world emotionally, then you should think about how to work out the financial angle in your relationship. Think and pray through. But don’t throw it away. Not just yet.

7. Is he too short, too fat, too tall, too smart, too dark, too light, too hairy, too muscular, too skinny, bald?etc These are things you can work around. If you don’t want to get married to a short man who will do anything to make you happy, would you rather he was tall and mean to you? A man’s height or physique will not make you happy. Stop delaying your marital destiny by desiring the wrong things.

8. The media sells us the picture of the perfect man with well formed abs, a perfect body, a perfect job, an IQ of 180, perfect teeth, a nice apartment, a great car,etc. If you want one of those men, you will have to find them in that magazine and no where else.

9. The fact is that if you want a good man, you must be willing to work on the relationship. You should be very suspicious of any man who looks too perfect. In fact, I will advise that you step back and re-evaluate a relationship with a guy who seems to have ‘everything together No man has everything together, if he did, he wouldn’t need you in his life. He needs you because of the value contribution and balance you will bring into his life.

10. Relationships work because we work them. Your man is probably around you now: in your church, at your offfice, in your neighbourhood, a close friend, etc, but you seek a ‘perfect prince’ from a distant country. Lady, that will not happen. If you want to get married, trust the Lord to grant you the wisdom to be discerning and see the treasure in your man, just the way he is. Thanks for reading.

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5 TYPES OF WOMEN YOU SHOULD NEVER EVER DATE.......By Andy Kwas. Bb pin 2326600E. Twitter @AndyQwas

Women are wonderful and it’s a joy to date most of them but some of them are so screwed up that they’ll make your life A LIVING HELL.  If you want to go to hell, let it at the end of your life at least and that will be because you rejected Jesus Christ.
There are some women who are nightmares to date and they should be avoided at all costs.  These are the type of women that suck the life out of you one way or another.
Life is about energy such as passion, enthusiasm, wisdom, vision. These are all form of energy and these types of women will drain you of your energy and drive you into a place in life that will not be fun. They will make your life a living hell. Dont date these 5 types of women.

1. EMOTIONAL EVELYN – THE BASKET CASE: Evelyn is the kind of woman who can’t control her feelings.  Everything is emotional.  She reacts to situations in the extreme. She is an extremist. Whatever she does, she does it either too much or in excess. Everything has to be exaggerated to the extremes and her life is always filled with drama.  As a result you’ll never be able to find a moment of peace because when nothing is happening she’ll create a pile of drama, even fights just to ‘feel’ that something is going on.

2. DESPARATE BARBARA – THE BRIDE TO BE: Most women want to get married at some point but Barbara is obsessed with marriage.  She’s spent her entire life planning for her special day and mapping out the life she’s going to be living with Prince Charming.  No matter how good you are, though, you’ll never live up to her imagination.  You’ll fall short and your life will be a constant nagging of how you could do better.

3. DEPRESSED DIANE – THE BUZZ KILL: Diane is always negative.  No matter what you suggest, no matter what everyone around her is doing she’ll find the negative in the situation and fail to enjoy herself.  Anyone around her who’s having fun will have her negative feelings thrust upon them.  If they don’t react accordingly she’ll feel offended and feel that you don’t care.  Misery loves company and if you’re not miserable too then you aren’t relating.

4. GRETTA THE GOLD DIGGER – THE LEGAL PROSTITUTE: You’ll be able to spot Gretta easily.  Everything is about money.  She’s always making references to money or the value of things.  If you find yourself out on a date with her recognize that money is something we all need but with her it’s the other lover that you’ll never live up to.  No matter how much money you have or share with her it will never be enough.

5. TAMMY TORTURER – THE EVIL WITCH: Tammy is a stealth master.  In fact, she’s an abuser.  This is the kind of woman who enjoys the pain of others and in most cases she’s the nicest, sweetest girl that nobody would ever suspect.  Any time she’s held accountable she’ll deny the truth and feign hurt feelings.  She turns people against themselves and others and she’s never at fault.  She’s the destroyer of lives. Never date an evil witch.

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15 KEY TEST TO SHOW IF YOU ARE READY FOR LOVE OR NOT....By Andy Kwas. Bb pin 2326600E. Twitter @AndyQwas

Everyday men and women enter into relationships and marriages HOPING for the best only to be astonished when they realize that the person responsible for ruining their marriage or sabotaging their relationship was the man or woman in the mirror. They were unprepared for love… but they had no idea. Are you ready for love? Find out by taking this critically appraised self-examination.
Examine Yourself…
When it comes to love, sex, relationships and marriage, most men and women take the position, “Ready or not, here I come!” They will dive into a relationship or marriage with little or absolutely no preparation. At best they are drawing straws. At worst they are rolling the dice. The statistics prove that the majority of men and women who gamble at love will eventually lose. Don’t wager with your love life.

In II Corinthians 13:5, we are commanded to examine ourselves. This self-examination is crucial if you intend on finding and experiencing True Love. This examination entails 15 key tests to help you and a potential mate determine if you are actually ready for love. The test starts now!

1. DO YOU KNOW WHAT TRUE LOVE IS?
“I love you!” “I love you to!” Most people who express those heartfelt words have no idea what True Love is neither the responsibility that goes along with it. I regularly meet men and women who claim they have been in love three or more times in their life. They met someone, fell in love, broke up with them and repeated that sequence of events with numerous lovers. One woman told me she had been in love with eight different men. She married and divorced four of them. What they didn’t know about love is that True Love never ends. If what they had were True Love, it wouldn’t have ended. They’d still be together, (See I Corinthians 13). How does one define True Love and who sets the standard? The Lord God defines what True Love is and He alone set the standard for love. It is only through His Word can we learn what True Love is. If you obtained your definition or interpretation about love from any source, you have been misled, (See I Thessalonians 4:9).

2. ARE YOU ABLE TO FORGIVE?
You are not ready to be in a relationship until you are able to forgive those who have offended or hurt you. If you are the type of person who can hold a grudge or harbor resentment or hard feelings, pull yourself off the market! You are a danger to yourself and to your potential mate, (See Mark 11:24-26 and Matthew 18:21-22).

3. HAVE YOU EXAMINED YOUR FLESH?
I frequently meet men and women who were sexually active in times past, dreadfully, many of them contracted sexually transmitted diseases. But because they were classified by medical science as being asymptomatic, (which means they had no symptoms) they had no idea of their alarming dilemma. I could share countless heart-gripping horror stories of husbands and wives who ended up infecting their spouses with…

• HIV/AIDS                                
• (HPV) Human Papilloma Virus
• Gonorrhea                              
• Hepatitis B                            
• Herpes Simplex Virus
• Chlamydia
• Syphilis
• Trichomoniasis

If you were sexually active in the past and have not taken a battery of tests for sexually transmitted diseases, pull yourself off the market. Even if you have no symptoms to speak and even if you practiced safe sex, GET TESTED! If you fail or refuse to do so, you are guilty of jeopardizing the physical safety of another human being. God forbid, but what if you did contract the HIV/AIDS virus, Chlamydia or HPV but are asymptomatic?

4. HAVE YOU LEARNED THE ART OF COMMUNICATION?
We are literally inundated with books, DVDs, CDs, therapists and marriage counselors attempting to help troubled couples learn how to talk to each other. An art they should have learned prior to saying, “I do!” Here’s what they didn’t learn before exchanging wedding vows, but you must:

• Proper listening skills
• How to respect another person’s opinion or point of view
• Talking and communicating non argumentatively
• Admitting when you are wrong
• Saying, “I’m sorry,” when the moment requires
• How to disagree honorably
• How to speak the truth in love
• When to remain silent
• How to diffuse tense moments

5. DO YOU RESPECT THE DIFFERENCES OF THE SEXES?
This should be a no-brainer! However, many men and women enter into relationships and marriages with no concept that male and females are different species. They either fail or refuse to honor our (male – female) uniqueness. If you only see things from a man’s perspective or from a woman’s point of view, you are not at all ready for love. And you won’t be ready until the day comes when you can respect the differences of the opposite sex without grumbling, bickering or backbiting.

6. ARE YOU HABOURING ILL FEELING TOWARD THE OPPOSITE SEX?
I once had a woman fire a verbal barrage of indignant words at me after I advised her to pull herself off the market. She had been molested as a child and blamed the entire male gender for her traumatic experience. In spite of her openly detestable view of all men, she insisted on seeking a husband.

Being that she is an attractive woman, she will no doubt find a man who doesn’t comprehend the magnitude of her bitterness. The divorce courts have a constant stream of couples who split for no other reason than one of them held on to deep-rooted animosity against the opposite sex.

If you are harboring Ill feelings toward the opposite sex, you must resolve your issue(s) before dating, courting or entering into a marriage covenant. By not doing so, you make yourself become the prime ingredient in a recipe for marital failure. Like mishandled sulphuric acid, your ill feelings will eventually spill over and burn your spouse, (See Hebrews 12:15).

7. DO YOU HAVE A TEMPER?
If you are prone to temper tantrums, explosive bursts of anger or harmful emotional outbursts, please pull yourself off the market! Make no mistake about it; you are not ready for love! Your disposition will surely be your courting or marital demise, (See Proverbs 22:24-25 and Proverbs 29:22).

8. DO YOU HAVE SOUL TIE?
A soul tie is when you have feelings for an ex boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, fantasy lover or past sex partner. If you long for a person, secretly wish you were with them, fantasize or daydream about them, or think about them sexually, pull yourself off the market! You are not ready to be in love with another person until you sever that soul tie, (See II Corinthians 10:5).

9. DO YOU HAVE ANY UNRESOLVED ISSUES? Issue such as…

• Unforgiveness
• Drug/Alcohol Addictions
• Secret Sins
• Child Support
• Criminal Issues
• Pornography Addictions
• Paternity Fraud
• Psychological Issues
• Baby’s Momma Drama
• Divorce issues
• Jealousy Issues
• Current Relationship Issues
• Control issues
• Abuse Issues
• Manipulation Issues

If so, pull yourself off the market until you get them resolved. Unresolved issues almost always come back to haunt you.

10. DO YOU HAVE UNREALISTIC MARITAL EXPECTATIONS?
More spouses have ended up in the divorce court because they held on to unrealistic expectations before they married. For example, he expected they were going to have sex everyday, two and three times a day. Or, she expected that her husband was going to worship the ground she walked on and treat her like she was the Queen of Sheba and Prince and Princess of Monaco.

When things don’t turn out as they dreamed or fantasized, these people become disappointed and eventually abandon, defraud or divorce their spouses. The way to insure that you don’t have unrealistic expectations is to talk to happily married couples. Ones who have been married for ten years or more. Find out from them the ebb and flow and various nuances of the married life. No offense, but you cannot obtain this vital information from single people, disgruntled couples or from bitter divorcees.

11. DO YOU HAVE A STRONG SPIRITUAL FOUNDATIONS?
Every marriage will face challenges, but the ones that stand the test of time are the ones in which both spouses are rooted and grounded in the Word of God and prayer, (See Luke 6:47-49). If your spiritual foundation is unstable, put the brakes on love and get your footing firmly established.

12. CAN YOU RECOGNIZE THE NUMEROUSE PRE-MARITAL PITFALLS AND LOVE, SEX AND RELATIONSHIP BOOBY TRAPS?
If not, you must pull yourself off the market immediately! There are too many snares for you to take a chance and hope that things work out for the best, (See II Timothy 2:26). Pervasive snares such domestic violence, sexually transmitted diseases, paternity fraud, dating abuse, marital fraud, stalking and spousal murder.

Don’t take the path traveled by most men and women, which is to stick their heads in the sand and act is if these things don’t exist. Or the other worn out path, which is the false belief that if you attend church you are immune to these things.

One of the prime reasons divorce and domestic violence is so prevalent in the church is because most Christians have received improper or no training at all in these critical areas. They knew nothing about the snares, booby traps and pitfalls until it was too late! Can you recognize when a potential mate is wearing a mask?

Can you identify the various sex traps? Are you able to discern when someone is attempting to lure you into an abusive relationship?

Are you able to identify paternity fraud predators or females shopping for disposable dads? If you cannot, you are not properly trained to reign in the area of love, sex, relationships or marriage.

13. DO YOU UNDERSTAND AND HONOUR THE MARRIAGE COVENANT?
In a society rift with divorce and children born to single mothers, many men and women have a distorted view of the marriage covenant. Before you proceed with love, getting an understanding of the marriage covenant is a must for both you and any potential spouse. The best place to acquire this vital information is in pre-marital training.

14. HAVE YOU TAKEN ANY PRE-MARITAL TRAINING?
This is a critical step to having a successful and vibrant a marriage. People who skip or reject this training process are not serious about having a love that lasts. At minimum, here are the areas that must be covered:

• Understanding what True love is
• Understanding and honoring the marriage covenant
• Communications 101
• Conflict resolutions 101
• Understand a man’s needs
• Understanding a woman’s needs
• The dangers of being unequally yoked
• The duties of the husband
• The duties of the wife
• Recognizing love, sex and relationship booby traps
• Recognizing pre-marital pitfalls

15. ARE YOU WILLING TO PARTICIPATE IN PRE MARITAL COUNSELLING?
A person who is not willing to engage in pre-marital counseling with a potential spouse is literally a walking time bomb. Their unwillingness or refusal clearly reveals that they have rejected the Written Word of God, (See Proverbs 1:20-33 and Proverbs 15:12,22). That makes them a dangerous person. Never proceed with marriage plans with a person who is unwilling to participate in pre-marital counseling. Never! Whew, you can take a much needed breather! The self-examination is finally over, how did you fare? Are you ready for love? Or, do you need to make some adjustments first before proceeding forward?

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40 THINGS A MAN MUST KNOW ABOUT LIFE, LOVE AND WOMEN...By Andy Kwas. Bb pin 2326600E. Twitter @AndyQwas

Smart men understand that they must be prepared for life, love and women. These 40 nuggets of wisdom provide you with the necessary information you’ll need to live and enjoy life to the fullest. Share these vital insights with every man you know. They will forever thank you!
1. Bad decisions have ruined many a man’s life. You can avoid heart piercing regret by thinking things through before you act.

2. A fundamental understanding of the female psyche is a must for all men – this information will save you much heartache and pain.

3. Unfortunately, the world is filled with females who will dash your dreams and ruin your life. Therefore choose your mate wisely.

4. No matter what it looks like, in the end you will always reap what sow. Always!

5. Learn the difference between true love and pure lust as early in life as possible. This crucial info will help you avoid sex traps.

6. If a woman walks out of your life, LET HER GO!

7. We live in a different day: economically, globally, politically and socially. How things are today are not like they were ten or twenty years ago. Don’t live based on yesterday’s information. Know your history, but live in the future.

8. Many females harbor anger and malice against the entire male gender. They seek out vengeance by putting nice men through the: divorce, domestic violence, family and child support courts. Learn how to recognize these females lest you become the next recipient of their cunning unforgiving wrath – Exclamation point!

9. Be chivalrous in victory and gracious in defeat.

10. Don’t allow negative people to creep into your life. They thrive on stunting the growth of others with their fatalistic pessimism. You have too much to live for, stay away from their negativity!

11. Learn how to hear and know God’s voice. He’s a great conversationalist and His wisdom will astound you.

12. It is better to have a broken engagement, than to go from one flesh to torn flesh.

13. Be quick to hear and slow to speak; know when to talk and when to listen. Obey these laws and you will go far in life.

14. It’s the law of nature; the alpha male always gets the girl. Don’t whine about it. Stand up, girt your loins like a man and become an alpha male!

15. Never make friends with an angry woman, NEVER!

16. Become intimately familiar with first and greatest Commandment of all Commandments.

17. Every female who claims to believe in God IS NOT telling the truth! Know how to discern the difference or you will pay dearly.

18. Sex is not a sport and females are not trophies. Treat the opposite sex with respect and honor – your life will be blessed!

19. If she lies to you once, shame on her, if she lies to you twice, shame on you. But if she lies to you a third time, then you deserve to be punished.

20. If you hate your job, find another one and then resign.

21. Learn how to bounce back from setbacks, failures and losses.

22. Condoms do not constitute “Safe sex.” They never have and they never will.

23. Don’t tell a woman you love her unless you truly mean it.

24. Learn how to pray to get results.

25. Know how to respond properly when people treat you bad.

26. Never put your trust in an untrustworthy woman, NEVER!

27. You control your destiny. Do it with the utmost planning, execution and passion.

28. You cannot change people! SO STOP TRYING!

29. If you are unhappy with your life, don’t complain, change it!

30. If you don’t know the fundamentals of acquiring and maintaining wealth – stop what you’re doing and LEARN THEM NOW!

31. Know how to respond when people let you down.

32. Sin is pleasurable for a season, but when that season is over, know this for a certainty; you are going to pay dearly!

33. Right or wrong, true or false, good or bad, people are always going to have opinions about you. Don’t be moved by their words.

34. All real men know how to walk away and save face. It’s a clear sign that they have reached true manhood

35. Know the art of communication frontward and backwards; it becomes a valuable commodity in love and marriage.

36. Don’t play games with a female’s emotions or feelings. You could damage her psyche for life and some other man will pay dearly for your indiscretions

37. Women who swear and use curse words make for abrasive and contentious spouses. Don’t date or marry them, just walk away.

38. When times get tough and pressure becomes unbearable, remember this irrefutable truth… storms NEVER last forever.

39. There are certain things in life that you cannot change, accept that truth and STOP TRYING TO CHANGE THEM!

40. If you don’t believe in God, heaven or hell, you better be right!

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40 THINGS EVERY WOMAN MUST KNOW ABOUT LOVE, SEX AND RELATIONSHIP...By Andy Kwas. Bb pin 2326600E. Twitter @AndyQwas

Most women learn about men, love, sex and relationships the hard way. They walk down the highly traveled, worn out path of emotional scars, broken hearts, abuse, confusion, anger and sleepless nights. When it comes to learning the hard way, you can get to know a great deal about men, love, sex and relationships, but most women who have traveled that path will tell you, “The price is too high and the consequences and lingering effects are way to painful!” Smart women understand this irrefutable truth.

Ladies, these 40 nuggets of wisdom and sage advice will help set you on the right path to finding and experiencing true love. Share these life-saving truths with every woman you know. They will forever thank you!

1. There are two types of men: Dangerous men and honorable men. Don’t date or marry until you know how to tell the difference between the two!

2. Honorable men are protectors. They will guard your heart, protect your emotions, defend your honor and stand as champions for your spiritual, mental and physical well-being; choose an honorable man and choose life! A dangerous is just the opposite of an honorable man. They will ripe your heart apart, distract, abuse you, deplete and make you wish you were or born.

3. You are not a car. You are a woman. If you meet a man who wants to test drive your physical body, emotions and feelings, point him to a car dealership, bid him a good bye and don’t look back! If you don’t, you are going to end with a child without a father who may never commit to the upbringing of your little baby.

4. This is a true saying: “The soul of a woman is fragile.” Please note: dishonorable males refuse to respect this crucial truth. They will toy with a woman’s emotions without any concern or compassion. Therefore YOU must guard your heart from these cold-hearted dangerous men with all diligence.

5. Good men need to be treated like good men, dishonorable males, need to be let go and left alone!

6. OK ladies; you’ve met this great guy, but he’s got a child or children for which he does not take care of, provide for or see to. Follow these instructions to the letter: urgently send him back to the mother(s) of his child(ren) and don’t look back. Don’t make the same mistake the mother(s) of his child(ren) did!

7. Dishonorable males treat sex as a sport, females as trophies and children they sire as wastepaper. Never allow yourself to become their next score, mantle piece or sperm repository.

8. Women who hold grudges, seek vengeance, cling to bitterness and are unwilling to forgive will unwittingly break their own hearts!

9. Choose the wrong mate and you might as well have laid next to a boa constrictor or grabbed the ears of a raging mad pit bull. A smart woman learns how to choose her mate wisely!

10. Heed the sage advice of some caring brothers and honorable men. If he doesn’t fit - don’t force him, just relax and let him go. Destiny is on your side… TRUE LOVE will find you!

11. Momma’s boys belong with only one type of woman; their moms! Ladies, these mothers and their sons will never cut their grotesque umbilical cord. Therefore, for your sake, leave them alone and just let them trot home to their mommies.

12. If you don’t have it self- love, pull yourself off the dating market because no man will buy you. You are an expired product. Make no mistake about it, if you don’t love yourself, NO MAN can ever love you… no matter how great a man he is.

13. Don’t judge ALL men by one man’s actions; unless you want ALL men to judge you based on the acts of all other women.

14. Most women don’t know how learn to choose a mate. They go through so much pain of emotionally detached males, jerks, pimps, and players. Don’t become one of those heartbroken and bitter women! Learn how to properly choose a mate before it’s too late! The woman in the mirror will graciously thank you.

15. You wondering, “If I move in with him, is he going to marry me?” Answer: “Not likely!” Don’t believe it, take these two critical tests: (a). Ask any honorable man! And, (b). Examine the ever-growing list of disillusioned women who are begrudgingly waiting for their non-committal live-in lovers to pop the big question.

16. Do you keep attracting men who are dogs? Check the scent you’re putting out. Men who are dogs are attracted by scent!

17. You are not a man! Therefore, you will never be: a role model for men, a father figure, a man’s mentor or a man’s coach. If a man has lacked proper male leadership in his life, kindly send him on his way. Know for a certainty; he is not prepared for the responsibilities that come with love, sex, relationship and marriage.

18. If you don’t know what a misogynistic man is, take this time to check your dictionary. For your sake, sanity and safety, avoid these treacherous males at all costs.

19. Don’t ever delude yourself! Your beauty, fine body, sexual prowess, cooking skills, femininity and vibrant personality will never be enough to change a man, NEVER!

20. If your potential mate does such things as: promises to call you but doesn’t, makes dates and breaks them, shows up late or plays games with your emotions; take notes ladies... those are clear cut warning signs that he DOES NOT value you, he DOES NOT love you and he DOES NOT care about you!

21. Angry, bitter, hostile, combative, unforgiving single women, become: angry, bitter, hostile and combative, unforgiving wives.

22. A fundamental understanding and respect of the male ego is a must for all women who want a vibrant and healthy love; DO NOT obtain this crucial information from dishonorable males or from angry bitter women.

23. If you choose to be with dishonorable males, pimps, players, thugs, ballers and shot callers, you have absolutely no right to complain when they torch your emotions, abuse you, leave you pregnant and alone, jeopardize your safety and otherwise harm or hurt you. Remember, you have freedom of choice and you chose to be with them!

24. When a man is trying to find himself, kindly bid him adieu… PERMANENTLY! He can find you, but can’t find himself? He shouldn’t be looking for love… he should be searching for the map to Mastering Manhood!

25. OK; he wants or is demanding sex but you are not his wife. Write this down: There is no need to wonder, debate or contemplate: he DOES NOT honor or respect you!

26. Spoiled women are like spoiled milk, spoiled meat, spoiled fruit spoiled bread and spoiled brats. Get the picture? Don’t become a spoiled woman! Who is a spoilt woman?

27. Expecting a dangerous man to do the honorable thing is like expecting a shark not to devour you if you make the mistake of diving into their water.

28. You’ve asked these questions, “Why doesn’t he call me more often? Why doesn’t he pursue me more diligently and why doesn’t he show me that he loves me?” Answer; he’s not into you! If you don’t let him go and move on with your life, you will allow him to hinder or block your true love from finding you!

29. All men ARE NOT dogs! Don’t believe, repeat or perpetuate that rampant lie! You will hamper your ability to see and discern the good men who cross your path!

30. Some men like to hit women. It gives them a sense of power and control. If you give yourself to one of these abusive men, most assuredly you will become a punching bag and a floor mat. It is critical that you learn how to detect and avoid these guys!

31. Promiscuous immoral women are not worthy of an honorable man. They never have been and they never will be.

32. Never allow emotionally embittered women to influence you concerning the male gender. If you do, their hatred and unforgivness will become yours. Soon you will find yourself suspicious, indignant and angry at all men.

33. You were not designed, built or destined for abuse, whether: emotionally, physically or financially. If he is an abuser, there is no need to deliberate… he IS NOT the one; leave him now!

34. Some women live their lives vicariously through movies like “Girlfriends, Sex In the City and Desperate Housewives.” Don’t become one of these women. If you do, you will make a literal mess of your life, emotions, physical body and well-being.

35. When a man truly loves you, he will honor and respect you. If he doesn't… don’t deceive yourself and don’t allow him to defraud you; he DOES NOT love OR care about you!

36. Everyone has skeletons in their closet? Wrong! Not everyone has skeletons in their closet. Don’t start putting any in yours!

37. There is a vast difference between sex and love. Most men know the difference and you had better learn it fast! If you fail or refuse to do so, you are surely headed for relationship or marital crash and burn.

38. Don’t deceive yourself, once you have sex with a man who is not your husband… he may never admit it, but he has lost a degree of respect for you. Don’t believe it? Ask any honorable man or virtuous woman.

39. The dismal cycle of breaking up and making up only works out in the romance novels, television shows and movies. If you are riding that emotional roller coaster get off right now! Your heart, mind and soul will forever thank you.

40. Nothing is more beautiful, captivating, attractive and sensual than a woman with a gentle and peaceable spirit!

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