20 TOP DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND INFATUATION By Andy Qwas. BB Pin: 3331963B, Twitter @AndyQwas

It’s amazing how much Hollywood has influenced your thinking and mine on the concept of what love is and what it’s not. Sometimes it's difficult to tell the difference between falling in love with someone, and being infatuated with them. The list below contains the top differences between love and infatuation and will help those who are having trouble discerning the difference.

1. Infatuation starts overnight and can also die overnight. Love starts slowly, grows and gets stronger with time

2. Infatuation has little or no depth but Love is deep and keeps growing deeper in depth in time.

3. Infatuation wants sex now and waiting can be very fatal. Love can wait and it’s willing to wait and delay sex until the time is right.

4. Infatuation is up and down emotionally. It can claim to be in Love now and the fall out of Love overnight. But love is stable and very consistent

5. Infatuation is only in love with just an aspect of the person like the guys money, her boobs, Ass, Face, etc. But Love is not in because of an aspect of the person. It’s in love with the entire person, the whole.

6. Infatuation is fickle and dry. But Love is faithful and warm.

7. Infatuation will daydream and cannot sleep, eat or concentrate because of someone they just met. But love has proper perspective. It very normal and will go about his or her normal activities of the day without being caught up with worrisome thoughts.

8. Infatuation is hostile and would break-up at the slightest irritations. But love is friendly and would grow stronger in the face of irritations.

9. Infatuation focuses and emphasizes only physical beauty but Love focuses and emphasis more of character than physical beauty.

10. Infatuation will seek to enrich self at the expense of the other. Love will seek to enrich the other at the expense of self.

11. Infatuation is in to get only. Infatuation is a getter. But Love is in to give. Love is a giver.

12. Infatuation is Self-focused but genuine love is other-person focused.

13. Infatuation is emotion based but Love is devotion based.

14. Infatuation will quit when the feelings die but Love will stick with an unwavering commitment in feelings or out of feelings.

15. Infatuation will accept the other person only when they meet certain standard and condition but Love provides unconditional acceptance of the other person.

16. Genuine love is focused and committed to only one person. An infatuated individual may be in love with two or more persons at the same time. Love has singularity and commitment. It is focused on one person.

17. Infatuation will cheat. Love is faithful

18. Infatuation is possessive and will restrain the other person from mixing others. It turns a partner from a soul mate into a cell mate. But Love is just the opposite. It will allow the other person full freedom to chat and fully relate with other people.

19. Infatuation has an idealized Image of the other person. It only see’s their strength. Love has a realistic view of the other person and see’s both their strengths and weaknesses.

20. Infatuation avoids pressure and will quit at the slight sight of problem. But Love will stick and work through challenges and problems in the relationship. Thanks for reading and please share this post.

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IF YOU SEE THESE 8 SIGNS, NEVER CONCLUDE THE RELATIONSHIP WITH "I do"By AndyQwas. Bb Pin:3331963B.

A girl said to me, “He’s a really nice guy but I just don’t know if James and I are meant to be together. I’m thinking about breaking up with him, but I’m not sure. How do I decide?”

It’s a question that plagues many singles: should I break up with my partner or stick it out a while longer? The following are sure signals that the long-range forecast for a relationship is worrisome:

1. YOUR PARTNER IS NOT HEALTHY EMOTIONALLY: If the person you’re dating is self-absorbed, paranoid, overly defensive, easily angered, or anything else that indicates an emotional health deficit, its best to move on.

2. REGULAR RELIGIOUS CONFLICT: Can you both agree and connect spiritually? Do you often experience intense frustration and disappointment in spiritual or religious matters? Are you deeply spiritual and your partner has little interest in spiritual matters? Do you sense something like a wall or barrier that separates you both spiritually? Quit now.

3. YOU HAVE NO FAITH IN YOUR PARTNER'S CHARACTER: Do you often question your partner’s character? Does your partner consistently demonstrate honesty, integrity, trustworthiness, and responsibility? If so, that’s a sign of strong character. If not, look out. The tendency toward deceitfulness and dishonesty has a way of spilling over into many areas of life.

4. DIFFERENT BELIEFS and VALUES: Does your values differ? Values are the principles that guide the way you live and make decisions. We all have an endless list of values: Excellence, honesty, generosity, compassion toward the poor, etc. If you and your partner differ radically on any one major value — or several less significant ones —severe conflict that will break up the relationship is just ahead.

5. YOU CAN'T CONNECT INTIMATELY: Do you find it difficult to communicate deeply with your partner? Intimacy for two people requires the sharing of their deepest feelings, thoughts, dreams, and fears. If you and your partner have a significantly different level of desire for heartfelt communication, the relationship will surely suffer.

6. CLASH OF INTEREST: Does your interests excites each other? The more hobbies and activities you both enjoy, the stronger your relationship will be. If you have five or six major interests, it’s a good idea to find someone who shares two or three of them or your future will be very tumultouse

7. YOU ARE NOT FREE TO BE YOURSELF AROUND THIS PERSON: One or both of you don’t feel free to be yourselves. No relationship is going to reach it’s potential unless both partners are authentic — unless they can genuinely be who they are. You will feel stifled and suffocated if you cannot consistently express your true self.

8. YOU CANT RESOLVE CONFLICTS: Relationships fall apart when conflicts occur and seldom, if ever, get resolved. In a solid relationships, two people must learn to manage their conflicts thoroughly and efficiently so that harmony prevails most of the time.

If you did spot areas of concern, take them seriously. The decision to end a mismatched relationship is very difficult but also incredibly wise.

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